My friend lost her little boy and he would be turning 1 had she not miscarried. she is having a rough go of it right now. She posted on fb about this. Well someone commented and said she understood becaus eshe just lost her son at 28 weeks....all i can think though is: well maybe you shouldnt have been smoking then. Seriously...you risked it and lost....that is on you. just to be clear...my friend isnt the one who was smoking during her pregnancy.