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Can't stop thinking about dirty....

Anonymous
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I am always constantly trying to make others happy, and in this way I am thinking clean home. 

I clean all day long. My SO says he doesn't care if he comes home and the house is a little messy, but I can't stand my house to be disgusting, (or what i think is disgusting). I mean I have literal OCD, and don't know how to relax. I have to vacuum every single day, no dishes dirty in the sink, beds made and KEPT made all day, things like that. I wish I could just do my mom job, and my college (fulltime) job, and be ok with letting the little things go.

How do you do it? How do you guys let the little things go? I can't stop thinking that if I don't have a spotless house when he comes home, that he is going to dissaprove of me. And think less of me. 3

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:09 AM
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Momma2anthony
by on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:11 AM
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BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:43 AM

bump

UnIdentiFiedOne
by on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:44 AM
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I hate cleaning...its easy for me. Lol.
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outtamymynd
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:44 AM
Sorry, when you figure it out tell me your secret.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:45 AM
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I have the opposite problem. I can't figure out how to keep my house clean.
Butterfly31607
by Bronze Member on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:46 AM
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Plus I have 2 little girls that I would much rather play outside with.

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I hate cleaning...its easy for me. Lol.
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gracieb3
by Platinum Member on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:48 AM
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Have a few kids and if that doesn't help the talk to your doctor about Lexapro.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:48 AM

I just worry so much that im not gonna make him happy if the house is not spotless.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:48 AM

i'm already on xanax and geodon

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:49 AM

i have 2 four year old sons and a 5 year old stedaughter.

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