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PERVERSE OR NORMAL? Do your kids give YOU backrubs and backscratches?

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I was raised by a single mom...who's boundaries are just about non-existent...our relationship has been inconsistent and unusual at best. 


I had no idea she taught my 3 year old to scratch her back with a back scratcher...which is weird but here is the thing THE SOUNDS SHE MAKES ARE ALMOST SEXUAL...

And it occured to me while talking to a friend...how possibly inappropriate what my mom had been with me, SHE TRAINED ME IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL to give backrubs with LOTION, and even as a little kid her moans skeeved me out...i stopped in middle school when I  realized no one else did that...not even my friends who also were raised by single moms....

so my question is...is this common? is it normal? Is it weird??

I am not talking a quick itch, done in a few seconds...I am talking minutes or longer...

by on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:20 PM
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EAzizM
by Erica on Mar. 26, 2012 at 6:08 PM
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It would be ok if she wasnt a loud moaner...id ask her to keep her noises under control. Or maybe record her and have her hear herself so she wont think you are talking out your ass.

laura_haa
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 6:10 PM
sounds like a friends episode i watched sunday...phoebe was giving her friend a back rub and she was getting all sorts crazy moaning...it made phoebe uncomfy so we tried charging 600 an hr...lol
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