Is it normal to feel depressed when you first find out you're pregnant?
I just found out I'm pregnant last night and it will be my second child at 21. Just as i started focusing on myself again, it seems like this has shattered all my future dreams and aspirations to become something more in life. I don't mean to offend, but I just can't live being a sahm my whole life. I know my reasoning is selfish, but I just can't seem to stop crying. When you first found out you were pregnant with your kids, did you ever go through depression? Is it normal?
*Before anyone plans to attack me by claiming i shouldn't have sex if I don't want kids, I am living with my bf who's the father of both my kids, and my bc failed me.