I had to unfriend this girl on fb tonight who I thought I had so much in common with because she turned out to be a stalker. We met IRL randomly at a fast food restaurant 2 years ago. She has fertility issues like me so that was a good ice breaker.
Long story short we added each other on facebook and never met up, texted, or talked on the phone until the beginning of 2012.
When we did start talking she had memorized all my family members' names and was even going as far as looking my BIL up on an online background check searcher, thank God I never gave her his real name. Apparently she runs online background searches on everyone she meets and pays for it.
I also figured out that she was looking me up, for who knows how long, on various websites (like cafemom and the like) which creeps me out like no other.
She would sob uncontrollably about a miscarriage she had a couple years ago and when I said I feel your pain because my husband and I have been trying for almost 3 years with no pregnancies she would snap that I don't understand because I've never been pregnant, I don't know how it feels, and I'll get pregnant because I'm married. And finally she would also complain nonstop about how she was going to be single and childless forever and only the lucky get married.
I'm really perplexed by her behavior so I feel guilty. She obviously has a lot of pain built up however I don't feel like I can help her and looking my family up and snooping is really not appreciated. Should I feel guilty about unfriending her?