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If you're convinced your husband will never stray...

Anonymous
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I hate to burst your bubble...but chances are you are wrong....I have been doing a research project for psychology about infidelity and relationships and the results are strikingly interesting. Most married men do indeed cheat or at least think about it....also, maybe some of you should do some 'research' yourself and post an anonymous ad on craigslist looking for married men...just wait how many 'happily married men' respond...their reasoning...'they are happy at home and love their wives, but want something more'....

I post this because of all the women that are constantly bashing about women who stay with cheaters and talking praise of their husbands when they really don't know the truth....

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:18 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:20 PM
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I'm not in a monogamous marriage. I don't believe my husband would cheat. He doesn't have the time for starters. Lol
UnIdentiFiedOne
by on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:21 PM
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Meh. I don't bash women who stay with cheaters because I don't care.

My husband simply isn't a cheater. He doesn't have it in him. I don't care if people believe me or think I'm naive. I'm the only one who actually knows my husband.
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by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:21 PM
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Not all men are cheating scum.  I'm sorry to burst YOUR bubble.  I've been with the same man for 8 years, and he has never cheated on me, and I've never cheated on him.  We are too mature and happy in our relationship to step out on each other.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:21 PM
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My DH says that he wouldn't be able to cheat because it's a cock block being married. He says he can't do it when he know it would be hurting our kids.

But coming from a family where both my parents cheated on each other, I come to expect it. I know it sounds stupid but I find that if you expect something like that to happen, it wont be such a big shock once it does happen.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:22 PM
Quoting Anonymous:

I'm not in a monogamous marriage. I don't believe my husband would cheat. He doesn't have the time for starters. Lol

Interesting....what kind of marriage are you in, if you don't mind me asking?

lizzie_8690
by on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:22 PM
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I dont think all men are cheaters. And.mine is one of those :)
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:23 PM

So men aren't capable of lying? Hiding certain things from their families? How are you 100% sure.....

Quoting Anonymous:

Not all men are cheating scum.  I'm sorry to burst YOUR bubble.  I've been with the same man for 8 years, and he has never cheated on me, and I've never cheated on him.  We are too mature and happy in our relationship to step out on each other.  


NDADanceMom
by on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:23 PM
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Quoting UnIdentiFiedOne:

Meh. I don't bash women who stay with cheaters because I don't care.

My husband simply isn't a cheater. He doesn't have it in him. I don't care if people believe me or think I'm naive. I'm the only one who actually knows my husband.

I feel the same way.  My husband just isnt the type.  He wants more time with me.... he isnt trying to escape! 

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:25 PM
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but may I query upon to you dear poster, by whose standards  is it cheating? DH and I have an open relationship, where if either strikes the urge we may step out. now if either does, to me, it is not cheating. there are others on this site who have expressed that if their DHs looking at porn then it is cheating by their standards. now that may put a pickle in your research, because it would give reason for anyone whose relationship parameters are different than yours to discredit your work based on you using closed study.

iluv2meow
by on Apr. 2, 2012 at 9:25 PM
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I think generalizing is always wrong, your generalizing to assume most husbands cheat while others are generalizing to assume most happy husbands are faithful. Generalizing is almost always wrong.

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