Does anyone ever get married anymore, BEFORE having kids? It drives me crazy that people have so many kids, by different fathers, etc. Seriously, what ever happened to getting married and THEN having children? I get you mess up in HS or whatever, have a kid, etc. but to just keep doing it?? I know a girl who's 20, has 3 kids, 3 different dad's, and to me, that is just insane!!! Just wanting to know why it's not important to give kids stability anymore?