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My opinion

Posted by on Apr. 4, 2012 at 10:59 PM
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Is that if you have never been through a painful separation or divorce or never been cheated on, you should not be giving advice to women who are currently going through that as you do not know what get are thinking and feeling. I hate seeing posts where a woman is hurt and struggling with the pain of the ending of her marriage and someone always comes in and makes some heartless remark like "just get over it". My STBX and I have been separated for a year and a half and it took me almost a full year to get over him and stop feeling jealous and hurt. The point I'm making is that we need to be more understanding and kind to others. We all have a right to feel whatever way we do and no one has a right to tell us otherwise. So stop with the "get over it"s and the "quit being mad at the other woman"s and dont give advice if it's not helpful.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:03 PM
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pristine729
by on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:04 PM
True...I prefer advice from someone experienced....
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BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:06 PM
I agree.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:06 PM


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OK, that is awesome!

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by on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:08 PM
I love this!!!


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SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:08 PM
Well, unfortunately, that's not going to happen
charliebean
by on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:37 PM
Apparently you're one of the ones who tells everyone to "get over it" a week after breaking up with their husband. Attitudes like yours are the reason there are so many bratty children in the world.

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ejbljb
by on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:40 PM
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True. I haven't been through that, so I'll just say sorry or hugs and try to be supportive without giving advice.
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lovelife350
by Platinum Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:44 PM

True. I haven't been through a divorce or separation just break ups. but i would never say anything horrible.  just be supportive

joci2203
by Silver Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 11:45 PM
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I went through it and look back and think to myself I should have just gotten the fuck over it!

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