Is that if you have never been through a painful separation or divorce or never been cheated on, you should not be giving advice to women who are currently going through that as you do not know what get are thinking and feeling. I hate seeing posts where a woman is hurt and struggling with the pain of the ending of her marriage and someone always comes in and makes some heartless remark like "just get over it". My STBX and I have been separated for a year and a half and it took me almost a full year to get over him and stop feeling jealous and hurt. The point I'm making is that we need to be more understanding and kind to others. We all have a right to feel whatever way we do and no one has a right to tell us otherwise. So stop with the "get over it"s and the "quit being mad at the other woman"s and dont give advice if it's not helpful.
on Apr. 4, 2012 at 10:59 PM