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There is always talk on here good and bad about submissive wives.
It got me thinking about the reverse.

Are there any dommes or dominant wives here?
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by on Apr. 5, 2012 at 3:06 PM
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Fistandantalus
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 6:46 AM
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I am a Domme.  Only in the sexual sense though, the dynamic does not extend beyond our playtime.

The few times that I have mentioned this here on CM in general, I have gotten responses that range from "Good for you" to "How can you stand being with a weak man?" to "You're a horrible person."

In my opinion, many do not understand what this choice really entails, and are falling back on things they've seen on television or read someplace.

I wish folks would just ASK instead of being rude about it...

fairyjester
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 7:25 AM

 

Quoting Fistandantalus:

I am a Domme.  Only in the sexual sense though, the dynamic does not extend beyond our playtime.

The few times that I have mentioned this here on CM in general, I have gotten responses that range from "Good for you" to "How can you stand being with a weak man?" to "You're a horrible person."

In my opinion, many do not understand what this choice really entails, and are falling back on things they've seen on television or read someplace.

I wish folks would just ASK instead of being rude about it...

 i hear ya,  i think its even worse around here for the submissive side.   hell on another thread  certain kinds of submissive are bash other kinds .



"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

epoh
by Ruby Member on Apr. 6, 2012 at 7:44 AM
I am a submissive with a dominant personality. I wouldn't be cut out to be a Domme. I prefer to relinquish control in the bedroom. I admire any Dom/me because they can do something I cannot. :)
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amyers_2010
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 7:46 AM

use to be dominant til i met someone that knocked me down a peg or two. not in a good way. he was actually pretty abusive, but it made me so that i take no lead at all.

tm88rn
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:47 AM

Definitely not me, but I am certain that there are members of every conceivable lifestyle on here.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:50 AM

I'm actually the opposite.  I am a female "head of house" and the dominant partner in daily life.

However, when it comes to the bedroom, I'm the sub.

Quoting Fistandantalus:

I am a Domme.  Only in the sexual sense though, the dynamic does not extend beyond our playtime.

The few times that I have mentioned this here on CM in general, I have gotten responses that range from "Good for you" to "How can you stand being with a weak man?" to "You're a horrible person."

In my opinion, many do not understand what this choice really entails, and are falling back on things they've seen on television or read someplace.

I wish folks would just ASK instead of being rude about it...


Fistandantalus
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:22 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm actually the opposite.  I am a female "head of house" and the dominant partner in daily life.

However, when it comes to the bedroom, I'm the sub.

Quoting Fistandantalus:

I am a Domme.  Only in the sexual sense though, the dynamic does not extend beyond our playtime.

The few times that I have mentioned this here on CM in general, I have gotten responses that range from "Good for you" to "How can you stand being with a weak man?" to "You're a horrible person."

In my opinion, many do not understand what this choice really entails, and are falling back on things they've seen on television or read someplace.

I wish folks would just ASK instead of being rude about it...


See now, I find that interesting.

Perhaps you would consider PMing me to discuss our lifestyle choices in private?

emilywaitress
by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 9:30 AM

You could buy him one and see what happens  :)

lwalker270
by Ruby Member on Apr. 6, 2012 at 10:05 AM

Nope.  We're a partnership.  Sometimes I compromise on decisions and sometimes DH does.  We're pretty equally matched.

loverfrombeyond
by Bronze Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:43 PM

I am newly Domme!

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