I have the sudden urge! Rant!

[Anonymous]

To kick my dh in the face! Yes he works as an electrician but he doesn't know what real tiredness is. He doesn't know how much work an infant is or cooking or keeping up a clean house and cleaning a dozen bottles is! I'm fucken more tired than he is! Right now he plopped his fatass down at the end of the bed and went to sleep. I really want to kick him in his face....real hard! I'm sorry Im not trying to sound like a selfish bitch but come on. I'm a stay at home mom. He thinks it's easy but it really is not! I'm stressed and tired and my feet are swollen. I haven't even got my period yet and I finished my bc pills last week Sunday.i took a pregnancy test last month and it came out negative. So idk what's going on! My life is complicated! Sorry about my rant :)

[MommaSugar78]

My fil is an electrician and does HVAC too. HE IS FRIGGIN EXHAUSTED all the time. He works harder than I do, and I am a SAHM too. I think you are being totally unfair. I think he works hard just like my fil does. I think your hormones may be getting the best of you and the concerns you may be pregnant is worse.

Electricians go from place to place, move huge things like fridges and washing machines and dryers, crawl into tiny spaces, etc.It is a ton of work. Of course you work hard too but you have no idea how hard and how much more work these guys do.

[ilayframe]

lets go have a drink! We both need one.

[MommaSugar78]

oh and I am a SAHM of 3 kids, and my fil STILL works harder.

[wodntulk2kno1]

Not saying a sahm isn't hard work. Your man works hard to, he just is selfish and does not realize you need a break from time to time. Talk ti him and if that dont work flip the fuck out. Worked for me when I was a sahm..lol

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I never thought of it that way! I guess I am being unfair :(

Quoting MommaSugar78:

My fil is an electrician and does HVAC too. HE IS FRIGGIN EXHAUSTED all the time. He works harder than I do, and I am a SAHM too. I think you are being totally unfair. I think he works hard just like my fil does. I think your hormones may be getting the best of you and the concerns you may be pregnant is worse.

Electricians go from place to place, move huge things like fridges and washing machines and dryers, crawl into tiny spaces, etc.It is a ton of work. Of course you work hard too but you have no idea how hard and how much more work these guys do.

[Anonymous]

Is he faking his tiredness? You need to get a grip!

[Anonymous]

They may work hard but they know when they get home it's over, sahm usually go 24 hrs without a end in sight.

[Anonymous]

Don't be sorry, sometimes you need a break too.

Quoting Anonymous:

I never thought of it that way! I guess I am being unfair :(

Quoting MommaSugar78:

My fil is an electrician and does HVAC too. HE IS FRIGGIN EXHAUSTED all the time. He works harder than I do, and I am a SAHM too. I think you are being totally unfair. I think he works hard just like my fil does. I think your hormones may be getting the best of you and the concerns you may be pregnant is worse.

Electricians go from place to place, move huge things like fridges and washing machines and dryers, crawl into tiny spaces, etc.It is a ton of work. Of course you work hard too but you have no idea how hard and how much more work these guys do.

[ccnstanczak]

 hugs.

comparing how tired each other is well its just pointless and lead to anger like how you are feeling. truth is you are BOTH tired. you sound like you dont feel appreciated.

 time to regroup and talk to your husband and work together. both need to compromise and come up with a plan on how to help each other out.

[Anonymous]

I'd have him stay at home on one of his days of and I'd go to a spa. Whenever my husband stays home with the kids and I come home the house is a disaster and he's at the end of his rope. I just say he needs more practice.