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To all the "other women"

Anonymous
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Why do you get a thrill off of going after men who are married or in serious relationships?

How hard is it to find a man that is SINGLE?

How hard is it to end a "relationship" if you find out he has lied to you and is married/in a relationship?

Why do you believe he will "leave his wife" for you?

Why don't you see that if he cheats with you, chances are he will cheat on you also?

Why do some of you actually believe your NOT home wreckers? Are you seriously that delusional?

Why do you say, I dont think of the wife when im sleeping whith a married man?

How would you feel about women sleeping with your husband KNOWING he was married?

Would that make you think differently?

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 2:29 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 7:48 PM
Women cheat all of the time too. Why should it matter if he's married or not? There's no hoe code that I'm aware of.
AdellesMom
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 7:52 PM
Me too!

I'm not going to pay r the whore to come break up my marriage! rofl


Quoting momo3fgr8tteens:

I hope she is going to pay her own travel expenses. 


Quoting AdellesMom:

Ikr?!



They want to stalk you and find your husband just to prove that they aren't sluts! LMFAO




Quoting momo3fgr8tteens:

There is some crazy people on here. They don't even know your life and they think they know all about your kids and your husbands and whatever. lmao



Quoting AdellesMom:

That's what I'm saying! lol





Quoting momo3fgr8tteens:

That anon is pathetic. Like really she is going to hunt your hubby out and sleep with him, lol! ok!




Quoting AdellesMom:

LMFAO!







You feel right into my trap. You're no victim! You're nothing but a home wrecking whore!







Remember, karma is the baddest bitch around.







Have a good afternoon!








Quoting Anonymous:

All dreams dont come true but mine do. Maybe not toxay but give me time..... I'm anon so who am I? You will never know til i'm done sleepin wit your man













Quoting AdellesMom:

I was actually looking forward--no DREAMING--to you telling me information about my family. I guess you thought you could click on my SN and find some ish out!











Too bad my page is private and I don't put my personal info all around the web for the world to see.











I guess all dreams don't come true! Life sucks for you!












Quoting Anonymous:

If thats what makes you sleep better at night belive it...... I'll be waiting

















Quoting AdellesMom:

Awwww...















Poor diluted anon! You know nothing of my husband, my life, or my family. You don't know his name, my name, where I live, etc.















You're sick. There's something seriously wrong with you. Get that checked out, K?
















Quoting Anonymous:

Isnt it kinda scary knowning I just need the tinest amount of info and I get tons of info bout you:-) haha thats not what your Dh said





















Quoting AdellesMom:

*You're



















Life sucks for you! He'll turn your "offer" down faster than Speedy Gonzalez would.



















My marriage is wonderful! Instead of trying to tear apart someone else's life, maybe you should make one for yourself.



















BTW: Whatcha gonna do? Stalk us?!




















Quoting Anonymous:

I will be letting your man bang me later just for your rude comment and yes your a bitch.

























Quoting AdellesMom:

LMFAO!























I'm not a bitch. My husband says I'm not a bitch. I'm definitely not a nag.























I guess you don't like people calling you out on your BS.























You're too feeble minded to understand that what you say has no effect on my life. Now, why don't you go ruin another family with your whorish ways?! ;)
























Quoting Anonymous:

No not all men just the ones who have a bitch of a wife like you at home... It will happen and I will be laughing as your heart is breaking. Dreams do come true and this is one if my dreams:-)





























Quoting AdellesMom:

Oh yes! Because *ALL* men cheat!













*Sarcasm*



























Get your head out of your ass.




























Quoting Anonymous:

Thats fIne dont. The day will come when you are in the same boat... The ow will not know bout you. Its a ring that can be taken off. How else is.another women suppise to know he has a dumb bitch of a wife at home

































Quoting AdellesMom:

Like I said, I'm not buying your BS "I'm a victim" story.































Quoting Anonymous:

I'm a slut cuz I slept with a married man unknowningly? Haha that is the dumbest thing I have read on cm....not giving you credit





































Quoting AdellesMom:

LMAO!



































The only slut I see is you. I've never been a slut. I'll neve be a slut. I have morals, something you clearly lack.




































Quoting Anonymous:

I have the BEST man on this planet!!!! Slut? Yes you are









































Quoting AdellesMom:

No.







































I know the kind of man I have. I trust him. Besides, I fulfill all of his sexual desires and needs. He has no reason to stray.







































Maybe you should stop sleeping with married men an find a man that wil actually love and take care of you!







































Even sluts deserve better than what they give themselves! :)








































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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 8:32 PM

aww thats sad :(

Quoting Anonymous:

I had a friend that met a guy on a dating site, dated him for 8 months and then found out he was married. Day after she found out, she dropped him. And btw they had gone to look at engagement rings a week before. 

Quoting Anonymous:

this has happened to me before, where im dating a guy, i really like and next thing u know, hes in a relationship. its hard to drop them cause you like them. just like its hard for the woman in the relationship to break up with them.



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 15, 2012 at 9:52 PM

My point is, cheating is WRONG. The one who cheats, man OR woman is WRONG. But, then again its WRONG to sleep with someone knowing they are married. Be it men or women. It don't make no difference, both wrong.

Quoting Anonymous:

Women cheat all of the time too. Why should it matter if he's married or not? There's no hoe code that I'm aware of.

 

Junesmommy18
by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 9:56 PM
Quoting Anonymous:

I didnt go lookin he found ME!!!!!!! So chew on that





What do you want? A cookie?


You're still a slut.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 15, 2012 at 9:57 PM

I never said its "all the other women's fault". The person cheating is the one breaking the vows. However, the person they cheat with is just as bad if they are aware the person they are sleeping with has a family.

Quoting Anonymous:

Honestly, if a guy cheats...I'm mad at him and not at the other woman.  Obviously he doesn't respect his wife enough so he goes cheating, so why is it the "other's woman" fault?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 9:59 PM
Be a grown up & leave or tell him go home to your family!
Regardless of who goes after who it is still a choice you make! It's OK to say NO YOUR MARRIED!


Quoting Anonymous:

I didnt go lookin he found ME!!!!!!! So chew on that

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 16, 2012 at 4:56 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

I never said its "all the other women's fault". The person cheating is the one breaking the vows. However, the person they cheat with is just as bad if they are aware the person they are sleeping with has a family.

Quoting Anonymous:

Honestly, if a guy cheats...I'm mad at him and not at the other woman.  Obviously he doesn't respect his wife enough so he goes cheating, so why is it the "other's woman" fault?

 

True that. True.Many do not say they're married out front.

Once you find out they're married you should pack up your toys and leave not before you kick him hard.

I have never been in the position of "the other woman", but have been cheated and it hurt. Badly. I was very young and in love and it threw me off balance. After that knowing how much it hurt me to find out I said to myself that I would never be able to cause this pain to another woman that loves her man. Knowing how bad it feels, I don't ever wanna be the cause of it. And I never was.


However I do feel that when/if a woman finds out  they should just end the relationship, kids or not. 

The trust is gone, it's impossible to get it back. You nurtured him and your family and the repay is cheating? He's outta here. I would not be able to forgive, I would always be suspicious after that, trust gone...hard to rebuilt that.

Some women would say : I gotta fight to get my husband back. I would say, why fight getting back a man that doesn't want me anymore anyways. I don't need to fight with anybody, I already earned my place and he obviously is a jerk.

Even if I know that the other woman is aware of him married or not, I most likely would still make him pay hell and not her. For me he's the screw up, he broke the vows, he's the one that had the idea of cheating in his head to start with.

Men like these for me are worthless. Women that know they are hanging out with a married are not homewreckers for me, the guy is.

lulu_tattoos
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 5:04 AM
I dated a married man for a few months and he left his wife. Or, they separated and divorced, I should say.
That marriage was already fucked before I came along. He was seeking, I wasn't. I wasn't even serious about him, and he knew that.
They're both still happy with their decision to divorce and they co-parent beautifully. The boys seem happier too, now that they've adjusted.
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bellanoelsmom
by Silver Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 5:09 AM
I loved the other woman post who said she loved the man and he loved her and she didn't give a damn about his wife or kids. News flash... If you truly loved him, his children would be a major concern for you! They are part of him and always should be. A real man would never choose some slut over his kids so good luck to her!
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