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no sex in 5 months

Posted by Anonymous

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we are married but havent had sex in 5 months

shall I be worried?

do some couples really go without sex for that long?

we have been married for 11 years and we are both healthy

he gained a little bit of weight but not he is not obese

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:21 PM

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rockgal81

Steph on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:23 PM

That's a really long time to be going without! Have you guys talked about it?? Have you both been uninterested or just one of you?

Jessica_Esqueda

on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:24 PM

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Have either one of you been having problems in that department? Maybe his testosterone is decreased?

My husband and I are going on 8 months right now.

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momto3infl

Silver Member on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:25 PM

We have been together 18yrs and married 16yrs. without sex for over a year. we may fool around once a month but doesn't lead to sex. we are both fine with, our whole marriage has been barely sex that is not what it is all about.

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BlahNomMom

Bronze Member on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:26 PM

Idk, honestly, id bring it up to him. You say he's gained weight maybe he's feeling self conscience?

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jshalas89

Jordan's Mom on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:27 PM

Are you married to a women? Hell no that's not normal!

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by Anonymous on Apr. 15, 2012 at 5:28 PM

It probably depends on if it's ok with both of you that it's been so long. Otherwise, you should talk about it and see what can be done to help things along.