anal
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Okay so how many of you have tried anal sex and how many of you love it or hate it I am wanting to try it and SO wants to but I am scared what can you tell me??
Quoting Anonymous:
Weve done it a couple times and i didnt really care for it. I just cant get over the feeling of having to shit!! Feels very awkward and im afraid i might actually shit lol alcohol does help a little lol i was a bit more relaxed that night
I really like anal, not for an all the time thing, but maybe like 30% of the time... as long as my husband doesn't try to just charge in there and there's at least a little time spent prepping .. down there.. then it's fine, but if you just try to go straight in with no kind of anal foreplay then it's going to hurt even if you're plenty lubricated, and try not to be too scared or tense about it either because that can affect it too, if you do try it just try to relax and take it slow because it can be really fun if it's done right
We tried it a few times. It feels amazing if your doing it right, if you do it wrong it can be very painful though. (obviously!) Here are a few tips...
Make sure you are very riled up, super horny. (idk why but it helps)
Make sure you use plenty of lube, be generous about it!
Absolutely do not start out immidiatly with his dingus in your anus. Start with a finger, then two, then try it with a small dildo or some anal beads. Work your way up to it.
Take it SLOW. Don't let him get too excited the first time. If he does, it can go from fun to very painful and possibly dangerous in a heartbeat.
No back and forth between anal and vaginal. Thats a BIG NO NO. (ties into the last thing here...)
Above all, remember to make sure he wears protection. Not just for STD safety, but there is a lot of bacteria in there he can get a lot of infections from.



