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Posted by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:05 AM
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I recently found out that I have a 2.3 inch (6 cm) cyst on my right ovary and that if I get pregnant it can cause a miscarriage and if it bursts it could make the chances of concieving much harder. My SO wants one more child as do I and he wants to ttc right now for fear of not being able to concieve in the future. However I don't ever want to experience a miscarriage I don't think I could handle the loss. I also want to go back to school and start my career before having anymore children. Anyway I believe it would be selfish to try knowing what I do but at the same time I don't want to miss the chance of having one more child. What do you ladies think?

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wkukid
by Beach Bum on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:07 AM
Are you taking anything to help shrink the cyst?
-JC-
by Gold Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:11 AM
Get the cyst removed first. its a simple surgery. Also i think if your dh knew about the risks he wouldn't want to try right now.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:12 AM

Just go in and get the damn thing removed. Its not that big a deal unless you do nothing about it. smh.

mamadismay
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:13 AM
No I didn't even know they had medications that could do that do you know what any of them are called. I am going into my regular gyno next week to discuss it. So any suggestions on questions I should ask would be great. I was diagnosed in the er a few days ago.

Quoting wkukid:

Are you taking anything to help shrink the cyst?
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mamadismay
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:14 AM
I don't have medical insurance to do so.

Quoting -JC-:

Get the cyst removed first. its a simple surgery. Also i think if your dh knew about the risks he wouldn't want to try right now.
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wkukid
by Beach Bum on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:16 AM
Im currently trying to concieve and I was on clomid, hcg and estrogen my last cycle. When I missed my period and got a negative blood test the first thought they had was I had a cyst. They gave me provera to reduce the cyst and help start my period. Have you had a ultrasound done to confirm you have a cyst?
mommy_2_be_2010
by Ruby Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:17 AM
Apply for medicaid


Quoting mamadismay:

I don't have medical insurance to do so.



Quoting -JC-:

Get the cyst removed first. its a simple surgery. Also i think if your dh knew about the risks he wouldn't want to try right now.

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mamadismay
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:17 AM
You know instead of being a bitch about it and being a cowardly anon, you could have simply asked of I had the money or the insurance to have the procedure done which don't. So why don't you pull the tampon from your ass and go be a bitch somewhere else.

Quoting Anonymous:

Just go in and get the damn thing removed. Its not that big a deal unless you do nothing about it. smh.

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IndigoOwl
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:20 AM
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Then how are you going to pay for a baby if you can't pay for that?


Quoting mamadismay:

I don't have medical insurance to do so.



Quoting -JC-:

Get the cyst removed first. its a simple surgery. Also i think if your dh knew about the risks he wouldn't want to try right now.

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mamadismay
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 3:20 AM
Yes thats how I found out. I thought I was having a miscarriage because I hadn't had my period and then all the sudden i was bleeding heavily so they did an ultrasound and that's when they found it.

Quoting wkukid:

Im currently trying to concieve and I was on clomid, hcg and estrogen my last cycle. When I missed my period and got a negative blood test the first thought they had was I had a cyst. They gave me provera to reduce the cyst and help start my period. Have you had a ultrasound done to confirm you have a cyst?
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