I've been reading all these articles about deadbeat dads & abortions lately along with my husband. He asks me "Why do these women think its ok for them to ditch out on raising a baby but its not ok for the guys?" I didn't know how to answer him. So I'd like to know why if a man isn't ready for a baby or if he doesn't want it he is a POS deadbeat when if a woman doesn't want it, she can throw out the "I won't be an incubator"/"It's my body, my choice" or whatever and its supposed to be ok? What makes it ok for a women to not want a baby but its not ok for a man?