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What is XDating?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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 And why is my husband online doing it? I know I have thought about going going on one of those dating sites just to see if all men really are assholes or just my husband, but I never have. I checked the history to see why my dh was up all night instead of in bed with me discussing our day (it has been bad lately and he refuses to talk to me about it) the last thing he was on was an xdating site. all the women on it were from local towns. Did he mean to get on this site or could it have been a pop up. Is he really virtually cheating on me. (that is what the site is right?)

I was pretty ticked off when I realized he was down here screwing himself instead of talking out our problems. We just had sex the night before and the night before that. Why does he need to screw every single night? With or without me.

I am so fired up right now it is ridiculous.

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 16, 2012 at 6:25 AM
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Azzura
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 6:40 AM
Yep, I found out my DH has been up to similar things as yours, just in the last 24 hours. At first I was mad, and hurt, but I have completely let it go, you can't make someone care about something, there's nothing you can do, if they want to jack off every night, you can't control it. I stopped caring, wouldn't you know that's when he sensed something had changed and he didn't have any power over me anymore, he can't make me care about the marriage either. People outgrow each other and go their separate ways. I'm not mad, I forgave him, if something angers you it controls you. He is standing there scratching his head, he feels guilty but can't say why. If he wants out he can say so, I will just keep living my life and being happy. No matter what I will be just fine. He won't though, he needs sex to try and complete himself, I am fulfilled and blessed to be free of being brought down. I hope you find peace of mind with whatever your future holds.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 16, 2012 at 6:49 AM

 Do you and your husband still live in the same house? How does that work out.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:07 AM
Uh oh...
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:24 AM

Whatever xdating is or whatever he did on it has certainly put him in a better mood. He woke up happy. Which he never does. And has said I love you no less than 10 time since 7am. I don't careif he is cyper fucking someone else. Because I don't even want to do this anymore, but at the same time it still bothers me a little. Do these things usually lead to actual cheating? Should I be worried?

sophiasmommy27
by Sarah Sweetheart on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:33 AM
um I just went to it. xdating. cuz I was curious too. and it another one of those sites with like girls on webcams and dating site. similar to adultfriendfinder.com ... I've had problems with these sites with my so in te beginning of our relationship too.
the banner said " meet horny sluts now" or something with horny sluts in it.
ehhhh. as long as he's not meeting up with the girls, fuck it, jack off, I don't give a shit. i let it go because I'm not gonna stop him from looking, and I'm for sure not gonna let it ruin my day.
I doubt this was helpful. but I did look it up...
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MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:37 AM
Maybe it wa a pop up?
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AnnieMcD
by Platinum Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:38 AM

All of the porn sites I go to have 'meet horny sluts in' my area ads popping up all over the place. It doesn't mean he's looking for them. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 16, 2012 at 9:42 AM
I go to a dating site to actually meet guys. I think this guy I met was married.... I think that is messed up.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 3, 2012 at 8:32 PM
I just found out my husband has recently started looking at this site. I'm not exactly sure how to take it. With two kids and eight years into the marriage, is it normal? I feel so betrayed... Have any of you out there actually caught any man dating these girls from xdating.com? Is it even real girls?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 10, 2013 at 5:08 PM
My boyfriend watches porn every night. He won't touch me unless it's on. We have been together for three years but this only started five months ago. I found a site called adult friend finder, dirty little sluts and X dating. He tells me there just pop ups and I'm crazy for thinking other wise. But they never pop up when I'm on only when he is. Something s not right. Are they really just pop ups? I have to know. Online or off, cheating is cheating.
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