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WTF???? She wants to have a baby with my DF!!!!

Anonymous
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*Before I get started, I just want to state that this is not a joke or troll post*

There is a lady that we met when we moved to this area almost 8 months ago. She has been a decent person,we do favors for each other,have play-dates with our daughters,shop together,went out to dinner a few times,etc. Anyways I have noticed her looking at my fiancee and a few times I caught her staring. I never really paid it too much attention,bc I figured she just found him attractive and also bc he has never seemed interested in her. Skip to today, she asked if I think DF would have a baby with her?! WTF?????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew I had to be hearing incorrectly. When she said it again, I thought ha ha ok weird joke, but shes just joking. WRONG!!! She is as serious as he*l. She says that she thinks DF has awesome genes and that she wants a child that's like mine or similar. I found this really odd,and was speechless. She says that she doesn't have feelings for my df,but she just wants a mixed baby. She feels it will be better looking, have "good hair" and have an easier time in life. This is insane!!! I can not believe this woman is serious. I told her its not an option. She says she wished that she could get a Latino man(DF is Puerto Rican) to look her way,but its hard for women of her race to date outside of their race(wtf). I again told her its not an option. Needless to say the remainder of lunch was awkward. Has anyone heard of something like this? I just find it real bold and rude and disrespectful to ask me something like this. Also, I thought you have a child based on love and desire to spend your life with a man is contributing factors...not a desire for a mixed baby

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:10 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:11 PM

Oh forgot to mention she also says if she had the money she would go to a sperm bank to have artificial insemination by a man of a different race. This way she could have a pretty baby with good hair. JUST WHEN YOU THINK YOU HAVE HEARD IT ALL!

cherrywaves21
by on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:11 PM
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I'm mixed I do not have good hair nor do I have easier in life. This bitch is off her rocker. I would stop being her friend ASAP before this turns into a lifetime movie.
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egyptian_mommy
by Gold Member on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:11 PM
o_O
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:12 PM

Take it as a compliment, no biggie.

couponluv72
by on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:12 PM
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at least she came to you to your face about it. brazen but brave. many would have gone behind your back to try and seduce your man. 

alyssaravensmom
by Platinum Member on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:13 PM
Yeah, I would not be talking to her ever again. I can't believe she had the nerve to ask you that.
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kiralyn
by on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:14 PM

Weird...

3pippings
by Silver Member on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:14 PM

Artificial Insemination. And make her sign a contract saying that your fiance just a sperm donor and nothing else.



divinedimension
by Not Miss Cleo on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:15 PM
Dayum...i think if i were in your shoes I would have been rendered speechless
Nursemommy0f2
by on Apr. 17, 2012 at 5:15 PM
Wtf is good hair?
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