See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
*Before I get started, I just want to state that this is not a joke or troll post*
There is a lady that we met when we moved to this area almost 8 months ago. She has been a decent person,we do favors for each other,have play-dates with our daughters,shop together,went out to dinner a few times,etc. Anyways I have noticed her looking at my fiancee and a few times I caught her staring. I never really paid it too much attention,bc I figured she just found him attractive and also bc he has never seemed interested in her. Skip to today, she asked if I think DF would have a baby with her?! WTF?????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew I had to be hearing incorrectly. When she said it again, I thought ha ha ok weird joke, but shes just joking. WRONG!!! She is as serious as he*l. She says that she thinks DF has awesome genes and that she wants a child that's like mine or similar. I found this really odd,and was speechless. She says that she doesn't have feelings for my df,but she just wants a mixed baby. She feels it will be better looking, have "good hair" and have an easier time in life. This is insane!!! I can not believe this woman is serious. I told her its not an option. She says she wished that she could get a Latino man(DF is Puerto Rican) to look her way,but its hard for women of her race to date outside of their race(wtf). I again told her its not an option. Needless to say the remainder of lunch was awkward. Has anyone heard of something like this? I just find it real bold and rude and disrespectful to ask me something like this. Also, I thought you have a child based on love and desire to spend your life with a man is contributing factors...not a desire for a mixed baby