And I made the mistake of running away. I did not marry the guy they wanted me to. Instead I met my own guy and had children with him. My mother warned me that he wasnt good and would cheat. He did exactly as she said. Now they have a new man for me and I am going to listen this time. My sisters all enjoy their spouses and I want to be happy too. That is why I believe in the parents choosing the spouse for their child. I am setting my children for arranged marriages too.