OK so here's the background. My mom lives with me and pays me 70 bucks a week for rent and pays cable which includes internet and phone. I pay the rest, rent, electric, propane, water, food. Well we have been having some issues recently with her not having enough monsy to give me and her butting in with my parenting. So my BF and I are going to be looking for a place to move in together. I think this would be really good for both my DD and his DS. It will be good all around. We have been together for a little over a year and he is 39 and I am 25. We want to be a family and we want to live together. So here is the problem. My mom at 51 years old can not support herself. She wants me to stay here and pay all the bills until she has the money.... The thing is is that we are looking for something for June 1st.... that is over a month and I don;t get why that is not enough time. I am not saying tomorrow I am saying 40 days. I think that is enough time for anyone. Everything I don't pay for my BF is going to pay for plus things we want.... I thik at 25 years old I should not have to worry if my mom is hearing me have sex when my BF sleeps over which he does a lot becuase he likes being with me. I think at 51 years old you should be able to support yourself and over 30 days is more than enough time to find a new apt. IDK how do i tell my mom it is not my job to support her I want to live on my own!
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