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you made him cheat on you

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Are there ever things a woman could do that would "make a man cheat" on her?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 24, 2012 at 6:38 PM
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Rlmama00
by Silver Member on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:20 AM
I think there are times when either partner can push the other into cheating. There's personal responsibility on both ends. If one partner withholds sex, affection, any type of physical contact and shows zero interest in the other for loooong stretches of time than I can see it happening. Neither behavior is okay but one can lead to the other. And no I have never cheated and as far as I know I haven't been cheated on.
RhondaVeggie
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:22 AM
Exactly. I'm not the most gorgeous woman alive but I still get plenty of random guys hitting on me. I'm not hanging out at bars or anything like that. It happens at the mall a lot for some reason and a few times at the ice cream stand. Oh, the bus was always popular too so I'm glad I no longer have to ride the bus! I just try to mention my hubby, asking my son if he remembers what daddy asked me to pick up while we were out is subtle enough, so they know there's no chance.


Quoting Anonymous:

Men and women flirt all the time. You can be at the gym minding your own business and there's always someone looking where they shouldn't be. If you get hit on or complimented by the opposite sex it's very easy to fall for that attention. Especially when you aren't made to feel that from your spouse.

It's what you do with that attention that matters.



Quoting Liyoness:

*Cocks head* But wouldn't that involve seeking out another man/woman in the first place? That's not exactly accidently stumbling upon some attention and melting.



Quoting Anonymous:

 Weight gain, not have sex, let yourself "go", neglect him, belittle him, not appreciate him, or show him no attention.  



Think about it...if he does these things to you wouldn't you melt if another man gave you some of the attention your husband wasn't giving you? For those who say no either you have never been in the situation where a man flirts with you the way your husband used to or you don't go around men enough to have the chance.



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BentoMommy
by Member on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:24 AM

 No, it's a choice.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 29 on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:26 AM

Of course.  A relationship is a two way street.  You both have to be in it for it to work.  If you check out, expect him to do the same.  Of course, in a perfect world you should end the relationship. 

 

BentoMommy
by Member on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:27 AM
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 I think this is completely untrue.  You can NEVER make someone cheat or push them into it, ever.  I was myself - nice, loving and thoughtful - to my husband and he was the one who withheld sex and affection and HE cheated.  It's a choice that only the stupid person who does it can make.

Quoting Rlmama00:

I think there are times when either partner can push the other into cheating. There's personal responsibility on both ends. If one partner withholds sex, affection, any type of physical contact and shows zero interest in the other for loooong stretches of time than I can see it happening. Neither behavior is okay but one can lead to the other. And no I have never cheated and as far as I know I haven't been cheated on.

 

cupcake_mom
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:28 AM

 i think no matter what a women does if a man truely loves her then he wouldnt cheat on her. if the man isnt happy then he needs to end it and tell her why he isnt happy

MomRocs1102
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:29 AM

Yes,  but it goes for both men, and women after so long of asking or crying out the person will seek whatever it  is else where.  Example, If your husband has been asking damn near begging for attention for months eventually he may branch off in search of it.  Don't get me wrong cheating is wrong and it is a choice, and should never be done,but in some situation i think it pushes the person to want to cheat

.Pagan.
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:30 AM

make as in FORCE no. however they can create an environment that encourages a weaker man to.

akingsmom
by Member on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:30 AM
No!
L1558
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 8:33 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

Not let him watch porn. If he's not allowed to sleep with any other p*ssy and then you turn around and tell him he can't SEE any other p*ssy. Uh yeah he'll cheat on you. Your p*ssy is not that special and prob not the only one he wants to see FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. lol poor guys.

Um, no. If he didn't want to see if for the rest of his life, he shouldn't have put a ring on my finger. 

Poor NOTHING.

Ah, Anonymous. 

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