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you made him cheat on you

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Are there ever things a woman could do that would "make a man cheat" on her?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 24, 2012 at 6:38 PM
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by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:41 PM
No, there is nothing a women can do to make her boy of a husband cheat on her. It's called SELF controll? Not SPOUSAL controll!!
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by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:43 PM
Quoting Mychele:

Naw I didn't but I had to ask..lolololol
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:43 PM
You made me lol!

Quoting Anonymous:

Not let him watch porn. If he's not allowed to sleep with any other p*ssy and then you turn around and tell him he can't SEE any other p*ssy. Uh yeah he'll cheat on you. Your p*ssy is not that special and prob not the only one he wants to see FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. lol poor guys.

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by Anonymous 15 on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:56 PM
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 Weight gain, not have sex, let yourself "go", neglect him, belittle him, not appreciate him, or show him no attention.  

Think about it...if he does these things to you wouldn't you melt if another man gave you some of the attention your husband wasn't giving you? For those who say no either you have never been in the situation where a man flirts with you the way your husband used to or you don't go around men enough to have the chance.

by Summer on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:57 PM
Short of holding a gun to your Even then she is giving permission.
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by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:58 PM

Nope.  Just like there aren't things  a woman can do to make a man cheat with her.

Cheating is a choice. A choice that is actively made. And in most cases, the repercussions of that choice are fully known. They just make the choice to cheat any way.  Cheating is a choice, that no one but the individual can and is responsible for making.

by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 8:00 PM

So flip the question. How do you guarantee that he won't cheat on you? The answer is there is no guarantee. If they are going to cheat then they are going to cheat.

by Anonymous 16 on Apr. 24, 2012 at 8:01 PM

 Um wow? I believe we are in the 21st century??? Sex is not a wifely duty??? Women like you piss me off.  As far as I'm concerned, this is no "WIFELY DUITES". Some women work while the men stay home with the kids now. Get up to date.

Quoting Kitsun:

How bout with holding sex for a year +?
What about your ' wifely duties'?


by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 8:02 PM
You can't make a man cheat if he isn't the type but virtually all men are in the right circumstances. If you're never having sex with him and you're treating him like crap then eventually 99% of all men will run in to another woman's arms.
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 8:05 PM

I don't know about "dudes", but men don't cheat. If they're unhappy, the either try to make it work or leave.

Quoting Anonymous:

 i believe yes, but its on both sides. If she neglects him, sexually, romantically, or just personally, then yea the dudes gonna be a dude and go somewhere else, however, if thats the case, he shold just leave her.

"Sometimes it is better to be kind than right. We do not need an intelligent mind that speaks, but a patient heart that listens."

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