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Married but have a crush

Anonymous
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That pretty much sums it up.  I'm married with kids, love my dh, but I've just started working with this guy who makes me feel all tingly when he looks at me.  I would never do anything, but now I feel all embarrassed when I'm around this guy and I feel guilty for fantasizing about him. Has this ever happened to you?  I hope it wears off soon.  I feel like eveyone, including my dh can tell how I feel. 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:37 AM
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momma4vr
by Gold Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:39 AM

its eyecandy as just start looking for annoying things he does lol

thehickinhickor
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:39 AM
Yep lol

Quoting momma4vr:

its eyecandy as just start looking for annoying things he does lol

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mnmo3bb
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:41 AM
Flee from all temptation! Lusting is adultery in your heart. It is the first step to cheating. I know you are looking for validation, yes it is "normal" but it isn't right. I would be deeply hurt if my husband had a crush at work. Take this seriously before it goes too far.
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moosesmom
by Ruby Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:43 AM
It's okay. But don't touch!!!!! Just look from a far....way far away.
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chunkyhoney78
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:43 AM

If you know your not going to give in then just enjoy the view nothing wrong with looking

UsArmyWife2001
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:45 AM
Look but don't touch!
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Tabs0902008
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:46 AM


Quoting momma4vr:

its eyecandy as just start looking for annoying things he does lol


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:48 AM


Quoting moosesmom:

It's okay. But don't touch!!!!! Just look from a far....way far away.


Yeah - I really don't want to do anything I would regret or mess up the good life I have with my dh. I'm just kind of amazed and embarrassed that I feel this way.  They introduced him to me and it was like - bang! Gah!  I'm glad we don't work together directly. Or maybe that would be better because then he might start to annoy me.

littleacorn
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:48 AM
I like the looking for annoying things idea too.


Quoting UsArmyWife2001:

Look but don't touch!

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moosesmom
by Ruby Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 2:49 AM
Nothing to embarrassed about. You're human. Flesh and blood. Just stay away from him. You'll be fine :-)

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Quoting moosesmom:

It's okay. But don't touch!!!!! Just look from a far....way far away.


Yeah - I really don't want to do anything I would regret or mess up the good life I have with my dh. I'm just kind of amazed and embarrassed that I feel this way.  They introduced him to me and it was like - bang! Gah!  I'm glad we don't work together directly. Or maybe that would be better because then he might start to annoy me.

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