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Which do you think would be worse?

Anonymous
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Being told by your SO they were unfaithful, or finding out your SO is being unfaithful...?


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:05 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:06 PM
Probably being told??
zoegirlsmom
by Ruby Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:06 PM
Being told...
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..guesswho..
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:07 PM
Honestly for me it would be being told. I can't imagine my dh looking me in the eyes and telling me that. I would be crushed. I would rather find out from someone else. It would still hurt but I think I would be more pissed off than crushed that way.
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olliesmommy2
by Metal Awareness on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:07 PM

 Finding out of course.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:08 PM
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finding out... I'd respect them a hair more by being told. and let me stress that hair isn't much.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:09 PM

I am not sure myself, but finding out sucks. :(

MommieSDW
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:09 PM
Finding out.
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LovelyBugs
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:10 PM
Finding out...I at least would have some respect for the fact that he told me
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Elle.tea.22
by Emerald Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:10 PM
Finding out.
SDarvasi
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:11 PM
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I think finding out. Because at least by being told by him, it means he has a conscience and feels guilty. If I have to find out, I don't know if I could ever trust him with anything...

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