of you who have husbands who stand up for them. Mine won't. His sister can say what she wants and he will never say a word. He cares more about how I speak to her than what she has said to me. All he says is for me to let things go. When she is an ass and demeans me as a mom he tells me how she doesn't mean it like that. Thank GOD, I only see her on special occasions but it's enough to upset me. It is enough to know that when it comes to his sister, I don't matter. I would love him to tell her I am a good mom. I would love him to tell her that she is not to speak to me like that. I would love him to be a man. I just said that his sister sucks and his response was that I am not being nice. He tells me I need to be respectful when I speak to her. Honestly, he loves her more than he does me . I CAN'T help but feel like this since he makes excuses and tells me how to talk to her. He even said he would stand up for her if I got out of line. Then he said he was saying that so I don't go off. I don't believe him. He probably will stand up for her. I know that I am on the back burner when it comes to his sister. I WILL NEVER be equal. He says he loves me and he says some things she has said isn't right but he will never say that to her. MY sil is way more important than me. I am his wife who he should protect, cherish, etc, but when it comes to her, I feel like all of that is a joke.
I can't eat. I should. I am pregnant. YES, I have ate some but just a matter of bites. I feel bad about that but dh is just not able to be a good husband and btw I will see my sil tomorrow and I am pretty worked up. IF he doesn't stand up for me it's gonna hurt bad...worse being pregnant and being the one who doesn't matter. I suppose she can say what she wants and I have to "deal".