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Do you think its ok for married men to go to strip clubs and/or watch porn?

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If you dont allow them to do those things do you think it will lead them to cheating? Do you allow your husbands to  do this?

by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:29 PM
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MrsImperfect
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:35 PM
It bothers me a little with the strip club unless I go too. Good thing he thinks theyre trashy and I don't care about the porn.
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usmc.momma
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:36 PM
Heck yeah!! We do it together!!
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countrymomma81
by Gold Member on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:36 PM
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I don't think it's ok. Fortunately, neither does my husband. He didn't do any of those things before we got married. He thinks it's disgusting and he often wonders how the men that go to strip clubs and watch porn would feel if their daughters were doing it?

young_lv_mom
by Silver Member on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:36 PM
I dont care if my hubby does that stuff, but what is up with the " allowing, or letting" them? They are grown, you can ask them not to, you can say what you will do if they go/watch, but you can't stop them if they want to do it. Just saying
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swizzlefiz
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:37 PM

I don't mind if my DH watches (free) porn on the computer.  We don't do strip clubs b/c if DH is going to be spending money on a female, it better be me, his mom, or our DD :)  One of his co-workers(who is married with 4 kids) spent $1000 in 1 night at a strip club.  I can't even begin to imagine being okay with that.

Caroline2010
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:37 PM

watching porn is fine but no strip club unless i go too!

tansyflower
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:38 PM

allowed?  yeah i am not in charge of him lmao.  that being said he can do what he wants.

AmaliaD
by Platinum Member on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:38 PM

well porn is free - the person isnt in person and real - also we watch together to get ideas.  so thats fine with me - he can watch alone - whatever i dont care.  

in a strip club you have to give money to a skank...  idont want skanks to have my money so we dont do that.   he thinks any woman who would work in one is lowly trash and thinks the clubs are really creepy.   also there is no one who looks as good as me in any strip club so thats another factor...  

Mommy4000
by Ruby Member on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:39 PM

I think it's okay as long as that's what is agreed upon in the marriage. No, I don't believe that not allowing these things in a relationship lead someone to cheat. No, going to strip clubs or watching porn is not something that's allowed in my marriage.

Windowdove
by on Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:39 PM
No way! I'm the porn! And the stripper! Nobody else!

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