DH Pissed Me Off....So Im Going To Be Slightly Immature.

[LadyFreeRider]

I admit this is going to be, or at the least sound, immature. Idc. DH does whatever he wants & I never say anything against it. He rides his bike, drinks w/ the guys, closes himself in his shop, fishes, hunts...Im not talking about every other weekend or so. EVERY STINKING NIGHT & WEEKEND. I sit at the house & watch the kids. I go somewhere- the kids go w/ me. Etc. ANYWAY. I tried to do something he wanted me to do today- put money on a reloadable debit card, order SS13s football pics. I have to do this online. So I get the $ on the card, use the rest of MY spending $ on a 30 pack of beer for HIM cuz he is on his bike today, & when I got home asked my niece for her computer so I can order the pics. She says no because DH told her the last time I had it that if he saw me with it again he would shoot it. W...T...FUCK?! I let him do whatever & I cant even use a goddamn computer for a few hours?! ASSHOLE! So Im spending the $ on the card & HE can figure out how to order the pics. >=)

[kcangel63]

I almost choked on my food, that was so funny!

Quoting bmw29:

I would light his nut hair on fire and spit in his eye.

[cherrywaves21]

There is a lady in my state who ripped her boyfriends balls off with her bare hand because he cheated on her. She is my hero.

Quoting bmw29:

Reading this reply I have changed my mind. In this case I would fire up the tractor and dig a very deep hole. There would be torture involved such as toenail pulling and perhaps I would cut off his balls and shove them up his nose before I made use of the aforementioned deep hole.

Quoting LadyFreeRider:

No I do not. I get on CM via my cell phone and I already tried to do the pics on here. Unfortunatly my phone doesnt have the internal memory. Its a cheap samsung. As for what he told my niece...yeah I believe her. He hates in internet and hates computers. It "takes away my attention from him" and yeah he has told me that. Same with reading a book. He will take it and throw it across the room. If its nighttime he will cut off all the lights on me. Yet he can do whatever he likes. As for the kids, he will not let me leave them with him. Trust me. I have tried. He uses his work as an excuse instead of compromising. Pisses me off.

Quoting mommytoeandb:

Ummm...do you not have your own computer?  Are you sure he really said that?  Maybe he was joking and she blew it out of proportion.  All of the pics we've gotten you can order over the phone.  That just seems odd.  And...get some hobbies of your own.  Just leave him with the kids. 

[arpazia]

You give sound advice, have you concidered a colum? :D

Quoting bmw29:

Reading this reply I have changed my mind. In this case I would fire up the tractor and dig a very deep hole. There would be torture involved such as toenail pulling and perhaps I would cut off his balls and shove them up his nose before I made use of the aforementioned deep hole.

Quoting LadyFreeRider:

No I do not. I get on CM via my cell phone and I already tried to do the pics on here. Unfortunatly my phone doesnt have the internal memory. Its a cheap samsung. As for what he told my niece...yeah I believe her. He hates in internet and hates computers. It "takes away my attention from him" and yeah he has told me that. Same with reading a book. He will take it and throw it across the room. If its nighttime he will cut off all the lights on me. Yet he can do whatever he likes. As for the kids, he will not let me leave them with him. Trust me. I have tried. He uses his work as an excuse instead of compromising. Pisses me off.

Quoting mommytoeandb:

Ummm...do you not have your own computer?  Are you sure he really said that?  Maybe he was joking and she blew it out of proportion.  All of the pics we've gotten you can order over the phone.  That just seems odd.  And...get some hobbies of your own.  Just leave him with the kids. 

[LadyFreeRider]

Haha! He is older but not by that much! Im 27 and he is turning 34 this month. Sometimes he thinks like an older person tho.

Quoting Anonymous:

Isn't he older than you? Like 42 or 52 or something.

[Ctink8189]

Wow, WTF? Why aren't you allowed to use the computer?? I don't think your being immature AT ALL. Thats BS!

[bmw29]

I'm sure I would end up with a lawsuit. Notice how I only say what *I* would do and never suggest others act as I would. I'm not doing the time if I don't even get to do the crime. ;)

Quoting arpazia:

You give sound advice, have you concidered a colum? :D

Quoting bmw29:

Reading this reply I have changed my mind. In this case I would fire up the tractor and dig a very deep hole. There would be torture involved such as toenail pulling and perhaps I would cut off his balls and shove them up his nose before I made use of the aforementioned deep hole.

Quoting LadyFreeRider:

No I do not. I get on CM via my cell phone and I already tried to do the pics on here. Unfortunatly my phone doesnt have the internal memory. Its a cheap samsung. As for what he told my niece...yeah I believe her. He hates in internet and hates computers. It "takes away my attention from him" and yeah he has told me that. Same with reading a book. He will take it and throw it across the room. If its nighttime he will cut off all the lights on me. Yet he can do whatever he likes. As for the kids, he will not let me leave them with him. Trust me. I have tried. He uses his work as an excuse instead of compromising. Pisses me off.

Quoting mommytoeandb:

Ummm...do you not have your own computer?  Are you sure he really said that?  Maybe he was joking and she blew it out of proportion.  All of the pics we've gotten you can order over the phone.  That just seems odd.  And...get some hobbies of your own.  Just leave him with the kids. 

[m3lissa_16]

I hate immature men who expect to live like irresponsible teens even after getting married and having kids. 

[bmw29]

Sorry about the choking.

Quoting kcangel63:

I almost choked on my food, that was so funny!

Quoting bmw29:

I would light his nut hair on fire and spit in his eye.

[arpazia]

Surely you could put a warning not responsible for action kinda thing!

Quoting bmw29:

I'm sure I would end up with a lawsuit. Notice how I only say what *I* would do and never suggest others act as I would. I'm not doing the time if I don't even get to do the crime. ;)

Quoting arpazia:

You give sound advice, have you concidered a colum? :D

Quoting bmw29:

Reading this reply I have changed my mind. In this case I would fire up the tractor and dig a very deep hole. There would be torture involved such as toenail pulling and perhaps I would cut off his balls and shove them up his nose before I made use of the aforementioned deep hole.

Quoting LadyFreeRider:

No I do not. I get on CM via my cell phone and I already tried to do the pics on here. Unfortunatly my phone doesnt have the internal memory. Its a cheap samsung. As for what he told my niece...yeah I believe her. He hates in internet and hates computers. It "takes away my attention from him" and yeah he has told me that. Same with reading a book. He will take it and throw it across the room. If its nighttime he will cut off all the lights on me. Yet he can do whatever he likes. As for the kids, he will not let me leave them with him. Trust me. I have tried. He uses his work as an excuse instead of compromising. Pisses me off.

Quoting mommytoeandb:

Ummm...do you not have your own computer?  Are you sure he really said that?  Maybe he was joking and she blew it out of proportion.  All of the pics we've gotten you can order over the phone.  That just seems odd.  And...get some hobbies of your own.  Just leave him with the kids. 

[Josie.Grossie]

Whether you work or not does not mean you cannot say anything. You are contributing in other ways to the household.
He sounds like a jerk and I hope you stop letting him get away with it.

Quoting LadyFreeRider:

Yeah pretty much. Im a sahm while he works so I dont say anything about what he chooses to do, no matter how irritated I get. Telling my 14 yo niece that about her laptop (which she got as a christmas present from grandparents) was over the line.

Quoting Josie.Grossie:

Has he always been like this?