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if your son or daughter came to you

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And said "I'm gay" would you disown them?

Yes or no?
If yes why?

I wouldn't disown my child I would still love him the same.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2012 at 8:45 AM
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by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:06 AM

I get the same reactions but in every generation their are at least two people that end up being gay. 

Quoting skyes_mama:

Lol, I was talking to someone and I told them I think gay runs in my family too. She thought I was crazy.

I have an Aunt and 4 cousins that are gay

Quoting lordkanarven:

It wouldn't surprise me honestly, being gay runs in my family.

It wouldn't change my feelings about her I would love her just the same and be a little relived because men can be horrible scum.

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by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:06 AM

Absoluely not.

I admit, I would be disappointed, only because I want grandkids one day. And I'd worry about them, because of all the negativity surrounding being gay. But they'd have my full support and unconditional love.

by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:09 AM
Then you are a piece of shit mother who could have child abandonment charges against her.

Quoting Anonymous:

              I can put up with a lot, but if son / daughter told me they were gay, I would say something like; " That's nice sweetheart. Dad and I have thought so for awhile now. We're glad  you came out of the closet and are being honest with us because now you can pack your shit and get the hell out of our house!!!!!. You have 24 hrs. to be gone! or you're trespassing. leave the key on the counter on your way out the door.  Dad and I are going out. You are dead to us and don't contact either of us again.  We are terribly sorry that you chose this path of sin.  We really thought we loved you once. If you do decide to turn straight again... you can send us an e-mail."

   If any of my kids dropped a bombshell about being gay, I would feel like a total failure as a mom, and could not have anything to do with it (them) again.  Don't care how old or young.  They would be Immediately ex-comunicated from the family..

                     NO BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!

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by Anonymous 8 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:12 AM

No. I think I would still worry about how tough that would make life for them, although I suppose the years before they were willing to embrace it may have been just as tough. I don't know. I'd definitely feel bad that life was that tough for them and I hadn't known. But I would love them the same.

by Bronze Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:14 AM
Exactly! My heart would be broken but that's still my child..

Quoting Anonymous:

No, but I would be broken hearted.
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by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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absolutely not! just because I dont agree with it, or dont feel that way doesn't mean that I should judge the people who mean the most to me. My children are mine, they have my love unconditionally. and I am a firm beliver that they did not make this a choice,  this is who they are. 

by Bronze Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:22 AM

I can not imagine my child doing something that would make me disown them especially being who there are if that would be gay straight bi or anything in between

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by Anonymous 9 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:23 AM
me no, dh not so sure he might have a problem
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:23 AM
nope.. But like I said in another post some time ago... I'd ask em to at least take one for the team so I can have granbabies!
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