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How can anyone deny their child?

Anonymous
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I saw on a post awhile back that a mother denies her children when they want a hug or kiss. That is just sad... I have 3 boys and would never deny them love and affection!
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:02 AM
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GentleGoddess
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:06 AM
Was she real?? That doesn't sound right. Actually never mind a know a women like that. Her children will need her affection, and she has to force herself to give it. She is almost disgusted by them. It's really sad. And what's worse is her daughter was molested by her step father and the mother forgave him and still loves him. Thank god he killed himself. But seriously!! It's really sad. I worry about her children. I am always loving it up on my boys.
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Mare1180
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:08 AM
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I agree. I'll take all the hugs & kisses I can get. I harass my boys all day long lol. I also can't stop tickling them...i should seek help ^_~
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:10 AM
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my mom hugged me twice when growing up. that i  can recall. some people just don't hug and kiss. with my daughter I smoother her in hugs and kisses and so does my mom.. Go figure.

JoLee12345
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:10 AM
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I agree! Affection is so important! Denying it can lead to sociopathic children
NikiSellers0806
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:11 AM
Thats sad:(
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Roo1234
by Platinum Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:12 AM
I know someone raised inn a family like this. They weren't overly affectionate to begin with, but after their son turned 10 he only received handshakes on occasion. No other physical contact from either parent.
On the other hand the daughter always got affection.even as a teen and adult.
The mom just never wanted children, resented having a son first and the dad thought that boys getting affection made them soft.

This isn't the only family like this, many people just aren't touchy-feely.
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Bethsunshine
by Emerald Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:12 AM
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That is so sad, not to mention disturbing!!

bmw29
by spitfire_bobbie on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:13 AM
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I won't always kiss my son when he asks. He's almost 11 and thinks if he kisses the dog and then comes and askd me for a kiss it's funny to lick me and then tell me I have dog butt on my face. I have learned not to kiss him when he is feeling silly.
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Aydans_Mommy
by Platinum Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:13 AM
I love hugs and kisses from my son.
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seraphimsong
by Gold Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 9:14 AM
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That's so sad :(

I am always loving on my kiddos. I can't get enough!!
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