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My husband says being on PA makes him feel like dirt

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News to me! I thought he was happy we get so much help, and I get to raise my son, while all he has to do is go to school.

WHATever. He doesn't feel like dirt when I am paying for food, with ease, or when im buying movies and new clothes or going to new places with our son. He is on MY case, not the other way around...

He just needs to shut the fuck up, and finish school.



good grief.

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:13 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:54 AM
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Omg lol
That's ridiculous.
Enough excuses, both. Of you are being lazy and wanting a handout.
I understand wanting to be home with your kid(s), but if you're depending on PA to take care of you.... Wow, just wow.

Quoting Anonymous:

We want to raise our child, until they are able to speak, by then we will have enough education to get an actual job.



Quoting Anonymous:

Ohhhh sooooooooo, why no job?








Both of you need one, or one of you. If ya can't swing bills while one works, get a job. PA isn't the way.








Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:55 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

He should feel like dirt. It's not everyone else's responsibility to pay for his family. If you can't pay your bills you shouldn't stay home, and he should get a job.
auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:55 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

If it makes him feel like dirt, tell him to get a job.

My husband manages to go to school full time and work 40 hours a week.

When he was laid off he worked at fucking McDonalds for 40 hours a week until he could find a better paying job.

He would rather work ANYWHERE than get assistance....... but that's him

My husband would be the same way.  My dad and FIL were the same way also. They did menial jobs to get by if they had no other choice...worked out of state away from family, etc....because a job is a job.


 

3KidsOneMom
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:55 AM

Wow....

KRIZZ25
by Gold Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:56 AM

 be gratefull ...he could behome less,hungry.

3KidsOneMom
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:56 AM

My dh is working 3 jobs. He works 2 jobs during the week and a part time job on the weekends. Thats over 80 hours a week!!

Aslen
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:57 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

We want to raise our child, until they are able to speak, by then we will have enough education to get an actual job.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ohhhh sooooooooo, why no job?





Both of you need one, or one of you. If ya can't swing bills while one works, get a job. PA isn't the way.





Keep dreaming. Your grandkids are gonna be on welfare, because you'll pass your piss-poor attitude and laziness on to your children, who will pass it on to their children.

You make me sick!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:57 AM
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I would feel like dirt if my family lived of PA and obviously didn't need it badly. Going out shopping doesn't should like you're in a tough spot.
Sounds like you both are to lazy to get a job and use school/child to justify it.
kaffedrikke
by Gold Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:58 AM
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Or he can get a part time job while in school.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2012 at 10:59 AM
Exactly.

Quoting KRIZZ25:

 be gratefull ...he could behome less,hungry.

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