My child was switched at birth and I let it happen: big update

[Anonymous]

During my last pregnancy and delivery my dh was deployed most of the time. I planned a homebirth with midwife so i could recover as quickly as possible. I was praying for a boy because we had 3 girls. My midwife didn't believe in medically unnecessary ultrasounds so I had to wait and find out. The day I went into labor i called my parents to watch the girls so i could labor peacefully and then call my midwife. Well i never got a chance to call her because things went too fast and i delivered in the tub. It was a girl and I was so upset. My mom freaked out at the blood and and called 911, they took me to the hospital and wisked her away because she wasn't doing so well. Later they brought me my baby but it was a boy. I had seen I had a girl but here was my wish come true and my dhs. I never said a thing and no one ever figured it out somehow. For a while i thought maybe i had been so messed up when my baby was born i didnt see what it was so i decided to do one of those home dna tests on my son and just found out he is not mine. I wouldn't change a thing though.

YOU PEOPLE ARE SO STUPID YOU CAN'T EVEN READ THE POST. I GAVE BIRTH AT HOME IN MY BATHTUB AND THEN WENT TO THE HOSPITAL. IT WAS NEVER MY PLAN TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL AT ALL. THEY DID NOT HAVE ELECTRONIC TAGS AT THE HOSPITAL 11 YEARS AGO AND ANYONE THAT SAYS THAT IS LYING. PLASTIC ID BRACELETS DONT CHANGE A THING AND WHEN YOU ARE BROUGHT BY AMBULANCE YOU DONT GET TAGGED IN THE AMBULANCE. IM SORRY SO MANY OF YOU DONT THINK THIS IS REAL OR THAT IT COULD HAPPEN BUT SORRY TO SAY ITS VERY TRUE AND ITS THE ONLY BAD THING I HAVE TO CONFESS. I AM VERY HAPPY WITH MY LIFE HOW ITS TURNED OUT.

Big Update: my reason for posting this is because ok, there have been some issues. For one, I wondered about the day I gave birth and how things went down. I have suspicions.
Dont get me wrong, I love "my" son but he, well, acts unusually and has for years. He has a strange birthmark under his hair. And when he gets angry bad things tend to happen. This year things were supposed to be different because we sent him to a military boarding school with his cousin, but then the accident happened last week so now I don't know what to think.

[AshleyGaddis]

Kind of hard to switch if one had a penis and the other didnt lol. Do you tell the one that gave birth to the boy...oh sorry his penis fell off while we were bathing him lol

Quoting jcm28:

yES A BABY CAN BE SWICHED AT BIRTH BUT TO KEEP SOMEONE ELSES BABY THATS HARD TO BELIEVE.

[Anonymous]

Maybe the other mom wanted a girl and was happy with the switch too ;)

[jcm28]

Quoting AshleyGaddis:

Kind of hard to switch if one had a penis and the other didnt lol. Do you tell the one that gave birth to the boy...oh sorry his penis fell off while we were bathing him lol

Quoting jcm28:

yES A BABY CAN BE SWICHED AT BIRTH BUT TO KEEP SOMEONE ELSES BABY THATS HARD TO BELIEVE.

YOU ARE RIGHT ASHLEY

[thatgirl70]

So you had a girl and willingly allowed yourself to take home a baby that wasn't yours? 

Troll.

[Anonymous]

That is so wrong and selfish. Do you realize your"son" will never have accurate med history? That he may be high risk for something and it won't be the first thing checked because no one knows? What about your daughter? The same is true for her as well. How could you carry her for 9 mos then toss her aside because of her gender? Im shocked, this, too me, is one of the most disgusting and disturbing posts I've read. I really hope you are just a troll.

Oh and btw, my dd is almost 13 and they used an electronic I'd bracelet on her. So you should rethink calling people liars over that.

[DylansMommyXo]

-YAWWWNNNN

[AshleyGaddis]

Maybe she does have the right baby, they gave her daughter miracle grow, and she sprouted a penis...if her story can happen, so can mine!

Quoting jcm28:

Quoting AshleyGaddis:

Kind of hard to switch if one had a penis and the other didnt lol. Do you tell the one that gave birth to the boy...oh sorry his penis fell off while we were bathing him lol

Quoting jcm28:

yES A BABY CAN BE SWICHED AT BIRTH BUT TO KEEP SOMEONE ELSES BABY THATS HARD TO BELIEVE.

YOU ARE RIGHT ASHLEY

[AshleyGaddis]

I just turned 28 my mom still has my braclet!

Quoting Anonymous:

That is so wrong and selfish. Do you realize your"son" will never have accurate med history? That he may be high risk for something and it won't be the first thing checked because no one knows? What about your daughter? The same is true for her as well. How could you carry her for 9 mos then toss her aside because of her gender? Im shocked, this, too me, is one of the most disgusting and disturbing posts I've read. I really hope you are just a troll.



Oh and btw, my dd is almost 13 and they used an electronic I'd bracelet on her. So you should rethink calling people liars over that.

[Anonymous]

bam

[NiCo86]

And how do you think the other family might feel??????