I He has been lieing to me for 6 years....I cannot belive what I just found out *UPDATE*** UPDATE 2*
He told me a lot he said he messages him and wanted to get back with him he told her he was married and she apparently freaked out abd he blocked her . he said he
She messagef me to start drama . I asked him about why he left her for not being able to get pregnant he said she would drink alot and blamed him for her not being able to get pregnant that she would kick holes in the walls, throw things at him, break things he said he even brought up adopting and she refused because she didn't wany other people kids he said he tried everything and she still blamed him he said a year and a half of that and he left .
I'm having a hard time beliving him ... His mom called me and aplogized age said she wanted me to come over abd talk about some stuff so I'm going there now . I'll update when I get back.
Well we got to his moms house and she hugs me and says I'm so sorry for keeping it a secret all this time. My husband went into the office and came back with a huge folder he opened it and pulled out the divorce papers he said I'm sure you want to see those first I looked at them and gave them back . He told me they dated in highschool and right when they were both 18 they got married with much objections from both sides of the family. He said the first few months were ok then she wanted a baby he said they would try so they tried and tried and nothing. She started getting angry and telling him it was his fault so he went to the Dr a got checked and he was fine when she went to get checked the Dr told her there was a 1 in a million chance of becoming pregnant. He said after that things got worst age statred drinking constantly always blaming him for not being able to have kids , she would put holes in walls, throw things at him ashtrays , glass frames , paper weights, she was breaking things he told me cops came many times and she was even taken to jail twice. He suggested councling , adoption he said he tried eveything and she refused just blamed him he was miserable and after a year and a half of trying to fix it he gave up and left , hhe said she wouldn't willingly divorce him he had to take get to court . He showed me police reports, pictures of holes in walls , of bruises he got from her throwing things at him , a lot of broken stuff she broke. I asked why he kept everything abd took pictures he said my mom told me to record everything just incase which is good. I feel bad for him and that he went threw that he told me she messages him and told him to leave me that they could adopt now ..he told her he was married abd happy with two kids and one on the eat and that she freaked out told him she was going to ruin everything for him . He blocked her he said he planned to tell me when we were dating but it was embarrasing . He said that I was so excited because I guess I mentioned hoe happy I was that it was both our first marriages before we got married and he was ashamed and didnt want to ruin it for me. We are still going to go to councling but i think we will be fine. Sorry if there are a lot of typos I'm mobile. Thanks for all the comments and advice :)