anal sex

[Anonymous]

ive done it once and ever since am afraid to do it . My first time hurt bad . Now my soon to be hubby wants to try it but am so scared since his alot thicker and bigger . What i want to know is what can i use to ease the pain if i come to try it ?

[Anonymous]

Lube. Lube. Lube. Lots of foreplay.

Go slow. You push into him. You be in control.

You've got to relax.

Goodluck.

[Anonymous]

I agree you have to relax but you also have to have good communication and alot of trust in your SO. I love it. Its not an all the time thing but its fun every once in awhile

[Anonymous]

they make specific lubs for anal sex ..mabey buy a coupl diff lubes and see if you find one that works for you .

[nickysmom71]

Silicone lube and lots and lots of it!!!!

[Anonymous]

I think this post just made me a little horny! lol

[04101997d]

YOUCH!!!! Ive always told my hubby, the day you let me stick a dildo in your asshole will be the day you can stick you BIG OL weinner in mine :)    It hasnt been talked about since...

[Anonymous]

Lying on your side helps a lot. Along with the other tips.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

lol i bet no it makes me want to try it more

Quoting Anonymous:

I think this post just made me a little horny! lol

[Anonymous]

I told my hubby the day you let me stick a dildo in your asshole will be the day you can stick your big ol weinner in mine :) It hasnt been talked about since... YOUCH!!!!

[27goingon60]

A little wine lots of foreplay have him fuck u. In ur v-j first and use his fingers in the back first with lots of lube. Have him slowly put in the tip and with real slow thrusts go in and out to strech it out a bit before going all the way in.you should b good to go after all that.if he's willing to do all that and b pacient u should both enjoy it. Good luck