My DH just... isn't who I married anymore, he never wants to help me, he hardly spends time with me, never tells me I look nice, or even that I look like crap, doesnt do the little things he used to do for me, he works and watches tv, sometimes plays with DS, eats and sleeps.
But none of that matters much at this point, he told me he wants to get a divorce. He says he wants to be alone, doesnt want to be married, doesnt plan on ever being married again, he'll give me almost all the furniture and everything in the house, make sure I have a different car that works and can fit the kids okay, and if we own a house he will let me keep it.
Our original agreement was to wait a year, so I could finish school, get a job and put away money for me and the kids and he could get me a new car and try to find a house just in case but in the mean time we were going to try working on our relationship try counseling etc. But he won't do any of it. And the other night he basically told me he doesnt want to try he just wants to be alone. I'm lost, scared, confused, hurt and about a million other feelings running through me.... I can't get myself out of "we're going to fix it and move on" phase into the "I need to prepare for a divorce" phase. I feel like my life is falling apart and I'm loosing everything.