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i think alimony/spousal support, is ridiculous

Anonymous
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yep, totally do! I understand child support, its his kid too and should be financially responsible as well as acting like a parent should. But freaking spousal support? he isnt YOUR dad, he just doesnt want to be with you anymore, i think people should kinda just learn to get over it and take responsibility for themselves! 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 1, 2012 at 4:44 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 1, 2012 at 4:46 AM
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Lol, wow. Yeah a woman who stayed home and took care of her family should totally be homeless because the dick head who wa giving her a certain life style decides to leave.
TygerLily62
by on May. 1, 2012 at 4:47 AM
I agree to a point. But if you married a man who promised you a certian lifestyle forever and ever and then he ended the relationship why shouldn't you still get it?
Personally I wouldn't want it but I understand where people are coming from.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 1, 2012 at 4:47 AM
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she decided to marry that dick head, 

Quoting Anonymous:

Lol, wow. Yeah a woman who stayed home and took care of her family should totally be homeless because the dick head who wa giving her a certain life style decides to leave.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 1, 2012 at 4:49 AM

everyone has a right to change their minds, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

I agree to a point. But if you married a man who promised you a certian lifestyle forever and ever and then he ended the relationship why shouldn't you still get it?
Personally I wouldn't want it but I understand where people are coming from.


TygerLily62
by on May. 1, 2012 at 4:50 AM
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Yeah, that doesn't mean others should have to suffer the consequences.

Quoting Anonymous:

everyone has a right to change their minds, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

I agree to a point. But if you married a man who promised you a certian lifestyle forever and ever and then he ended the relationship why shouldn't you still get it?
Personally I wouldn't want it but I understand where people are coming from.


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by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 1, 2012 at 4:51 AM

she didnt have to marry him in the first place, it was her choice, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

Yeah, that doesn't mean others should have to suffer the consequences.

Quoting Anonymous:

everyone has a right to change their minds, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

I agree to a point. But if you married a man who promised you a certian lifestyle forever and ever and then he ended the relationship why shouldn't you still get it?
Personally I wouldn't want it but I understand where people are coming from.



angeleyes16
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 4:51 AM
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 I think it's okay for a set amount of time to help the mother do something to be able to be steady on her own. Especially if the ex dh was able financially.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 1, 2012 at 4:52 AM
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Yes, and he decided to marry her, and thus give up half of his earnings, so it's a match made in heaven. I know for a fact if my husband were to some day divorce me I am taking him to the cleaners lol. 

Quoting Anonymous:

she decided to marry that dick head, 

Quoting Anonymous:

Lol, wow. Yeah a woman who stayed home and took care of her family should totally be homeless because the dick head who wa giving her a certain life style decides to leave.



TygerLily62
by on May. 1, 2012 at 4:54 AM
Yeah. And it was probably her choice to sign the prenup too. Good for her.
People change. People decieve other people. It's not a womans fault that her husband decided that he wanted to leave regardless of whether or not she made the decision to leave him.


Quoting Anonymous:

she didnt have to marry him in the first place, it was her choice, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

Yeah, that doesn't mean others should have to suffer the consequences.



Quoting Anonymous:

everyone has a right to change their minds, 

Quoting TygerLily62:

I agree to a point. But if you married a man who promised you a certian lifestyle forever and ever and then he ended the relationship why shouldn't you still get it?
Personally I wouldn't want it but I understand where people are coming from.



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by Anonymous on May. 1, 2012 at 4:55 AM
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My friend spends her spousal and child support on weed for her and her physically abusive boyfriend. She's totally earned it though by cheating on her husband then divorcing him.
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