we got pregnant early on in our relationship and got married soon after. our dd was born very prematurely and it was a huge struggle but it brought us closer. Dd is now 2. we have an 11 week old son. He is ebf so hes attached to me much of the time.
Dh and I have grown apart lately. We both love each other very much and can't imagine being with anyone else, but I don't feel "in love." I know marriages go through stages and ups and downs so I know I'm not giving up since marriages are work at times.
Our sex life has suffered greatly. My pregnancy with ds was high risk, so sex was a big big big no no. we haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant, through the pregnancy or he was born.
We have a weekend trip to dallas planed. our dd is staying with family, but ds is coming with us. We are going to a nba game and staying in a nice hotel...i want to use the weekend to reconnect with dh.... Any advice?
Also any tips on keeping our relationship fresh when its us at home with both our kids, busy schedules(i sah, he works 7am-6pm), crazy cats, nutty dog and his odd ball parents? (they don't live with us but are a huge cause of stress to me)