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Naive Carrie Underwood Gives Her Husband a Hall Pass When He Goes Out (VIDEO) Do you let your husband go out whenever he wants?

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Naive Carrie Underwood Gives Her Husband a Hall Pass When He Goes Out (VIDEO)

Posted by Mary Fischer on May 1, 2012 

carrie underwoodAhh -- newlyweds. Don't they make you giggle a little bit sometimes? They're just so naive and in love and totally have their heads in the clouds. But then again, most of us did too at one point or another. That's part of the fun of getting married, right? Carrie Underwood tied the knot with Mike Fisher a little less than two years ago, and they're obviously still enjoying the honeymoon period.

She must be deliriously blinded by love (gag me), especially since she went ahead and gave Mike a major hall pass in her new Glamour interview.

Carrie gushed over how amazing he is and how much she trusts him and all that good stuff, and then went on to say:

I don’t have to worry about Mike. I don’t think twice. He’s going out? I don’t care; it doesn’t bother me. I don’t bat an eye.

OMG. I can't help but feel a little bit bad for her, because she probably has no idea she just gave her husband a free ticket to party it up with the boys (and do God knows what else) for the remainder of their marriage. Because if she ever so much as questions him about what he is up to or where he is headed, he can throw her words right back in her face by saying, "Oh c'mon -- I thought you totally trusted me, doll!"

Don't get me wrong, it's all well and good that Carrie has so much confidence in Mike and that she's certain he won't engage in any sort of bad behavior. But did she really have to throw in the bit about not caring one bit if he goes out? Because something tells me if he's suddenly M.I.A. every single Saturday night after they have a couple of kids down the road, she's not going to be quite as lenient with him. Can't you picture how their future phone conversations will go down once kiddos enter the picture?! (I'll try and contain my laughter as best I can.)

Good thing for Carrie, she's got some time to ride the newlywed wave with Mike before he gets a hankering for a little more action. As you will hear in this video clip, they're taking things nice and slow when it comes to being a boring old married couple.


Do you let your husband go out whenever he wants?

by on May. 1, 2012 at 6:44 PM
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by on May. 1, 2012 at 8:57 PM

yeah we've been married for 5 years and have 2 kids and i still say stuff like that. But the thingis before you say stuff like that you have to know who your saying it to/and or about. If my Husband wanted to go out he could and i wouldnt bat an eye,or worry about anything either. Having to worry about him cheating or just taking advantage of me and always going out just wouldnt make it worthit for me.

by on May. 1, 2012 at 8:58 PM
He goes out where aand when he wants to.
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by Gold Member on May. 1, 2012 at 9:00 PM
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I trust my husband if I didn't I wouldn't have married him. If he wants to go somewhere we discuss it he doesn't have to ask for permission. He's a grown man not a child.

by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:00 PM
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it is a sad statement on our country to consider trusting your spouse to be naive. when it should be common place and honored. unfortunately with the cheating and divorce rate so high i can understand why some think trusting your spouse fully is not a smart move. 

by Anonymous 3 on May. 1, 2012 at 9:00 PM
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She better be careful!he might get drunk and accidently cheat on her!
by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:18 PM

I'm his wife, not his mother.

If he wants to go out he can...which is probably why he hardly ever does.  I don't keep him on a short leash and prong collar.

by Anonymous 4 on May. 1, 2012 at 9:29 PM

SHE did not IMO. She just said she loves her husband and trusts him not to be an IDIOT when he goes out. Nuff said.

by on May. 1, 2012 at 9:34 PM
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Do I LET my husband go out whenever he wants?  LET?  Sorry, the last I checked, my husband wasn't a dog on a leash. He's a grown man.  I trust him as he trusts me....we don't treat each other with jealousy and controlling mannerisms.  We respect each other.  If either of us go out, we inform each other.  Period.  A "hey, honey...I'm going out....I'll call you when I'm on my way home."  is all a person needs....and maybe the location(s) for safetys sake.  I'm really getting sick of articles like these.  Women treating men like untrained dogs....sickening.  And yes, that's exactly how it comes across to others. 

by Platinum Member on May. 1, 2012 at 9:37 PM
I've got to echo everyone saying wtf is up with acting like we should treat our husbands like children? Do you LET him go out, do you ALLOW porn, is he in TROUBLE if he masturbates? Really ladies??? If you don't consider you and your DH equals, and trust his judgement, you have NO business being married.
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by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:23 PM

Just because she's okay with him going out, doesn't mean he is going to cheat.  

There's this thing called TRUST.  If your marriage is going to work, you have to trust each other.  If my husband wanted to go out with a few of his friends, who am I to stop him?  I trust him.  

My DH is out of state at the moment doing some training.  Has been for about 6 weeks and still has a few more to go.  There's a graduation on the base this weekend so him and the other guys he's there training with have to go stay in a hotel.  They have a couple days off.  They get to do whatever they want.  Does that mean he's going to cheat on me?  No, because we have respect and trust in our marriage.

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