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32 with a 20 year old child! Wow! *Update*

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I can't believe my first child was born 20 years ago today and my second was born 2 years ago!! How far apart are your kids?

*Update*

Ok.  I can't keep up with the replies.

The 20 year old is my brother.  I started raising him, as well as my sisters when I was 12 years old.  He was about 3 months old, my sisters were 6 and 3 at the time.  My father was a deadbeat dad and my brother's father was a deadbeat dad.  My sister's father was and still is not, but he only had visitation of every other weekend.  My mom was a functioning alcoholic that worked a really crazy schedule.  I went to school and came home to take care of 3 kids.  When I was 27 my mom passed away of liver failure and I got full custody of my brother, who was 15 at the time.  No I didn't not give birth to him, but all other manners he is my kid.

My DD was born 14 days before my brother's 18th birthday and 6 days after mine.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 12:19 AM
Replies (21-30):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 2, 2012 at 12:24 AM

Umm, why...

Quoting Anonymous:

So?  That's ridiculous! 

Quoting Anonymous:

So........?


Quoting truth.be.told:

What you had a kid at 12?



bmack2107
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:24 AM

DS & DD might just be exactly 8.5 years apart, if DD decides to come late =P. His b-day is February 22nd and her due date is July 21st.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 2, 2012 at 12:24 AM

I didn't have a choice.

Quoting Anonymous:

Did you keep the first one


Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on May. 2, 2012 at 12:24 AM

I could not handle being an adolescent at the same time as my child. 

bmack2107
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:25 AM

Because she feels like being judgemental... things happen, get over it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Umm, why...

Quoting Anonymous:

So?  That's ridiculous! 

Quoting Anonymous:

So........?


Quoting truth.be.told:

What you had a kid at 12?




TraceyMR
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:26 AM
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I can't imagine that twenty years ago twelve year olds were all about getting pregnant. I am going with the guess that this was not a planned or wanted pregnancy. I'm sorry if you had suffered. Wow at 20 years :-)

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 2, 2012 at 12:26 AM

Yes my oldest is 20 years old today.

Quoting truth.be.told:

I didnt understand your title.

I was just clarifying..


Quoting Anonymous:

So........?




Quoting truth.be.told:

What you had a kid at 12?



samara_love33
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:26 AM
My daughter just turned 4 this baby is due in October.
I had a baby last year due in October but it didn't make it and I got pregnant right after my first so it would have been 4,3,1, newborn
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 2, 2012 at 12:26 AM

 Wuz quoting her cuz i agreed with her

Quoting bmack2107:

Because she feels like being judgemental... things happen, get over it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Umm, why...

Quoting Anonymous:

So?  That's ridiculous! 

Quoting Anonymous:

So........?


Quoting truth.be.told:

What you had a kid at 12?





P.V.Hawkwind
by Ruby Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:26 AM
Were you raped? Why did you have a second one? Not being mean,just curious.
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