I'm giving my son to my mom

[Anonymous]

Temporarily....

Ask me anything

[singlemom1208]

Well best of luck to you!!

Quoting Anonymous:

She's 3 months and bf'd.

She's clueless.

My son is not

Quoting singlemom1208:

But why won't she take the baby too? Won't a shelter be bad for him too?

[Anonymous]

I made that mistake when my son was barely 1. My mother still hasn't given back guardianship even though I'm stable emotionally and financially. She is using him to control me.

Be careful.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

There are... But I must start in a shelter and it could take up to 6 months

Quoting QJsmommy:

Are there any programs that will help you get on your feet and help with an apt so your family can be together?

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes. But he's the reason I got clean sand sober and stayed this way.


He was my savior.


I love my child so much. The thought is even killing me

Quoting QJsmommy:

Aw:( everything will work out, at least you know its not forever and its for the sake of him!

Quoting Anonymous:

It's killing me. He's my everything

Quoting QJsmommy:

Are you upset about it? My moms taking my new baby when he or she gets here.

[RoseWall]

hugs

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

No legal work being done. She will return him to me when I have a place. My mother isn't a piece of shit

Quoting Anonymous:

I made that mistake when my son was barely 1. My mother still hasn't given back guardianship even though I'm stable emotionally and financially. She is using him to control me.

Be careful.

[Anonymous]

 I never said it was easy for you. I could not even imagine having to go through that. It is a good thing at least she will take your son with her. Why do you have to leave your place now? Do you know what shelter you are going to?

Quoting Anonymous:

His father was. But we split 2 years ago.
My baby is 3 months, breastfed, and won't really know what's going on.
My son will be miserable in a shelter. He'd be better with my mom for now.
This isn't easy for me either

Quoting Anonymous:

why does he hit so much? Were you with an abuser??  Why wouldnt she take the baby too?

 

[couponluv72]

question, have you considered that with the higher rate of people with untreated illnesses in a shelter like tuberculosis, arent you placing your your baby in potentially grave danger?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

M bf and I split up temporarily until I can't get my anxiety under control :(

Quoting Anonymous:

 I never said it was easy for you. I could not even imagine having to go through that. It is a good thing at least she will take your son with her. Why do you have to leave your place now? Do you know what shelter you are going to?

Quoting Anonymous:

His father was. But we split 2 years ago.
My baby is 3 months, breastfed, and won't really know what's going on.
My son will be miserable in a shelter. He'd be better with my mom for now.
This isn't easy for me either

Quoting Anonymous:

why does he hit so much? Were you with an abuser??  Why wouldnt she take the baby too?

 

[MeganGallagher]

How long

[jessi2girls]

If you breastfeed, you can get assistance for up to a year while remaining a SAHM while on assistance.. have you signed up to get help?

Quoting Anonymous:

He's being evaluated next week.
No I was a sahm
My bf and I split.

Quoting momoftwo0406:

Well I guess I can understand that. Why does he hurt people? Have you talked to anyone about it? There could be a number of reason granted at 4 it could just be a behavior thing. Will you be keeping the newborn with you? I hope you find a place to live soon. Do you work? Have you looked into government housing?

Quoting Anonymous:

He will be 4.
I'm about to be homeless and don't want to out him through it. I have a newborn and he also hurts her constantly. If I blink an eye .... Slap!


He destroys everything and physically hurts me

Quoting momoftwo0406:

How old is he? Why?