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omg !! another freaking mom of the year

Posted by on May. 2, 2012 at 10:35 AM
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 THIS JUST MAKES ME SICK

CLAYTON, Mo. -- A judge sentenced a Missouri woman to consecutive life prison terms for sexually assaulting her infant daughter along with a California man she met online.

Vanvlerah pleaded guilty in January to incest, statutory sodomy and statutory rape in the attacks against her daughter, who is 3 but who was 5 months old when the pair first attacked her. The woman who fostered and then adopted the girl said initially, the girl would scream when anyone bathed her or changed her diaper. She still has night terrors and asks at each bedtime to make sure nobody else comes into the home.

However, she said the girl is improving day by day and "is no longer Tessa's plaything and she is no longer Tessa's child."

Vanvlerah was arrested in 2010 following the arrest of 49-year-old Kenneth Kyle, a California State University East Bay professor, on child pornography charges. Along with hundreds of child porn images on Kyle's computers, investigators found information that led them to the St. Louis area, where Kyle had visited Vanvlerah four times in five months since meeting online. During those visits, prosecutors say the pair had sex with the girl and each other at various hotels.

Kyle pleaded guilty to a federal child sexual abuse charge and was sentenced in March to 37 1/2 years in prison.

Forensic psychologist Dr. Brooke Kraushaar testified at Vanvlerah's sentencing hearing that Vanvlerah's dependent-personality disorder caused her to participate in Kyle's sexual fantasies, even though she knew sex acts involving the baby were wrong.

Kraushaar, who was hired by defense lawyers Brent Labovitz and Kevin Whiteley, described Vanvlerah as "a passive offender." She said Vanvlerah was so afraid of being rejected by others that she also allowed Kyle to choke, burn and urinate on her.

But assistant prosecutor Kathi Alizadeh disputed the diagnosis, pointing out that Vanvlerah exercised free will in electronic communications with another man. Vanvlerah carved her nickname for the man, "Lord Nikon," into her skin at his request, the prosecutor said, but drew the line at one of his suggestions involving bestiality.

Alizadeh said police learned that Vanvlerah and another man, from Avon, Mo., exchanged child porn and discussed plans for him to come to St. Louis to have sex with the infant, but it was never acted upon.

 

In 2008, when Vanvlerah was 18, a woman obtained a court order of protection against her, accusing her of seducing and having sex with the woman's 16-year-old autistic son. Alizadeh said it resulted in Vanvlerah's pregnancy.

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couponluv72
by on May. 2, 2012 at 10:35 AM
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i feel ill

jb0520
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 10:38 AM
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Omg, I couldn't even finish this! That poor baby! Honestly a death sentence wouldn't be good enough for me, he deserved to be tortured! 37 years WTF?
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BluEyedCrazy
by Christy Ann on May. 2, 2012 at 10:38 AM
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I think I may puke :(

MaNdYbEaR2010
by *Manda* on May. 2, 2012 at 10:38 AM

I just read this somewhere. Had her pic and everything.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 2, 2012 at 10:39 AM

And this is why some people shouldn't be allowed to have children! She had a personality disorder, too afraid of rejection, so she allows her child to be abused? Yea, that baby should have been taken away at birth!

MrsRinehart2010
by on May. 2, 2012 at 10:40 AM


Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:

I just read this somewhere. Had her pic and everything.


yahoo probaly thats where I read it at

2girlsYES
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 10:41 AM
I feel so sad for that little girl!! People like this just make me sick.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 2, 2012 at 10:42 AM
Ugh that is not far from me. Just fucking sick.

Who would hurt an innocent baby like that? The pain she must of endured:(
xoxoDanicaxoxo
by on May. 2, 2012 at 10:43 AM
Disgusting ass people
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xomrs.chase
by Ruby Member on May. 2, 2012 at 10:44 AM
Omg...... :( that's so sick and sad.... I seriously feel like I'm going to puke
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