HELP!!! Need advice: Loved one losing it, lashing out at kids
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Hi guys:
Someone very dear me is losing their mind. She has 3 kids under 4 and is very overwhelmed and frustrated. Though she is married, her husband works all the time and doesn't really do anything when he is around. She lashes out at the kids, swearing at them, telling them they've ruined her life, and now has resulted in telling them to F off. She calls me while melting down all the time. It breaks my heart. She beats her head (literally) out of frustration, throws her belongings and sometimes food out of rage.
She tries really hard, but trying to be all things to all people is taking a toll. What would you do? I'll update later to bring you up to speed on what I've been doing when I have more time. Please give me your honest suggestions and opinions.
She needs to go talk to someone and fast. Before she has a mental break down or worse.
Needs to go and talk to her dr. She needs to have someone to give her a break for an hour or two a day at this point. she need help before she hurts her self or kids in one of her rages. I will say a prayer for her and hope all gets better, and dh needs to help too working or not.
At what age should I tell my son dh is not his bio dad?