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What would you think of this situation? WE TALKED!!

Anonymous
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-SO lives with his uncle (they work together) I live 3 hours away with my mom.
-SO comes home every weekend
-Came this weekend in a funk
-snapped at DD then again at me
-Kept taking phone calls outside
-Turning down sex
-left early
-Hasn't called or texted me since he left.
-I found out he went to a meeting here in town this morning and didn't stop by.
-Hasn't responded to my calls or texts

What would you think of this behavior??

** SO called, his dad has been in the hospital and they are testing for bone marrow cancer. He and his dad are very close. He apologized for not communicating but he said he needed time to himself to wrap his head around the thought. He didn't tell me what was up because he didn't want me to think he was weak. Thanks to those of you who didn't jump to the cheating conclusions.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 12:46 PM
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couponluv72
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:47 PM

i would wonder a bit at what is up. and i would be upfront in telling him he is acting odd next time i saw him

subiemama
by Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:49 PM

 Something is definitely up. Not necessarily another woman, it could be anything, You need to talk, and not in an accusing way. Just express concern that something could be wrong.

Mrs_Szontagh
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:50 PM

i would definitely confront him about his behavior and ask whats going on! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 12:51 PM

Impossible situation. Not adults, not going to work out. Time to grow up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 2, 2012 at 12:51 PM
I know something is up. I asked if everything was okay but he just shook his head. He shuts down when something bothers him.

Quoting subiemama:

 Something is definitely up. Not necessarily another woman, it could be anything, You need to talk, and not in an accusing way. Just express concern that something could be wrong.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 12:52 PM
I would ask him to be upfront with you. Another women orstress or whatever it is. In all honesty sounds like you should be making sure your ready if this is his way of splitting up.
Hilary799
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:52 PM
Don't go at him in an accusing way, just ask if something's wrong and he wants to talk about it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 2, 2012 at 12:52 PM
Wow really?? Lame

Quoting Anonymous:

Impossible situation. Not adults, not going to work out. Time to grow up.

brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on May. 2, 2012 at 12:53 PM

 I would say something is wrong.




 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 12:55 PM

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What would YOU THINK of this situation.

That is what I think. You both live with older relatives because you cannot support yourselves apparently. He is acting weird and probably getting bored, not like you thought the relationship meant anymore then that seeing as he doesn't live with you AND lives 3 hours away.

Do you really think that a relationship like that would work out when he can find a girlfriend closer that can spend more time with him and isn't also sucking a relative dry?

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow really?? Lame

Quoting Anonymous:

Impossible situation. Not adults, not going to work out. Time to grow up.


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