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Sooo... I guess it's over and done.... *edited*

Anonymous
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My DH just went to jail and I feel like it's my fault....


He's a recovering alcoholic and he fell off the wagon last night, I took him to a woman he calls "mom"'s house this morning because she can usually get through to him when he's like this, on the way home he started ripping my stereo and console out in the car while I was driving, and some of the wires.  I happened to be passing a cop when this was going on and we got pulled over...  He got arrested for criminal damage to property and taken to jail... I think I've just lost my family  (SS was NOT with us last night/this morning he's with FIL)


*edits*

The car is registered in my mom's name for insurance reasons, and the cops said we didn't have a say in whether or not charges were pressed.... and DH has been sober for almost 3 years, no idea what set this off

Posted by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 5:28 PM
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momto2girls89
by on May. 2, 2012 at 5:29 PM
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Do you even want to be with someone like that for the rest of your life?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 5:30 PM

That makes no sense.  How do you get arrested for damaging your own property?

TxCowGirl07
by Silver Member on May. 2, 2012 at 5:30 PM

Im sorry, but it sounds like he needs some help with his drinking problem.

Momof2Stepof3
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2012 at 5:31 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

That makes no sense.  How do you get arrested for damaging your own property?


LovelyJay512
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 5:32 PM

There's more to this story than what you're saying. How they figure he was damaging your property? He probably has hand problems which is what he most likely got locked up for.

Why do you want to be with a drunk anyway? Love isn't shit when a man disrespects, abuses you. I've dealt with a loser like that too, I never say never but if anything were to happen with DH and I now I'd NEVER look back at captain loser!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 2, 2012 at 5:34 PM

If he is in recovery, he knows the drill.  Jails, institutions and death.  The only end to a binge...

sweetieiv
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 5:35 PM
Not to be rude but maybe in jail he can really think about his actions and hopefully he will realize that by drinking and ripping off sterios he is not giving his children the best example.
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