Have you ever been the "other women?" Do you regret it?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever hooked up with a guy that was married or in a relationship?  Do you regret doing it, or did you enjoy it?

[lusyl95]

No, I love and respect myself too much, to be second banana for anyone!

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

A one night stand with a man I knew was married, but no I don't regret it. Was just a fun night nothing more. 

[mes_deux_amours]

No, even as a young teen and young adult I had self respect. I also wanted nothing to do with a trashy guy who would break his vows or cheat on a gf.

[Anonymous]

Dont regret it. She was an evil bitch and should have taken better care of him so he didn't come looking for me.

[Anonymous]

I am currently the other woman, but he is the other man as well. I have mixed feelings about it. He technically has left his wife. He wants me to leave my husband and part of me wants to, but I am a sahm and my kids love their dad. So I am torn.

[Jblaac57]

everybody called me the other woman because he was still technically married, but they were separated and not living together..no i dont feel bad for it at all, the woman is a total bitch and i am now happily married to the same man!

[radioheid]

 Yes. We were both in the military (I was in the Air Force, he was in the Army), but I didn't know he was married at first. Once I found out he was, it was over. I was 18, he was 23, and he had apparently been married for 3 years and had a 2-year old daughter at the time. His wife found out because I told her after I found out he was married and ended the relationship.

I can't regret what I didn't know.

[NHGal]

Yes, but when I was young and stupid. Once it was a one night hookup and I knew he had a girlfriend (in college, booze, you get the idea) the other time I didn't know I was the other woman the entire time we were together and I ended it once I found out.

I didn't feel bad in the first situation but that was just where I was at that time. The second time I was more hurt than anything else.

Would I do it now? Hell no!

[Mare1180]

No, I try not to be a homewrecker :)