The invitation for DH's brother's wedding is addressed to only DH and I. Is it rude if we bring our 15 month old to the ceremony only? Or should we ask? He would not be at the reception. But it is family and I don't see there being anything wrong with bringing him to the ceremony. Family that we rarely get to see will be there. Not that it matters but DH's kids were our flower girl and ring bearer and the bride's kids were at our wedding & reception. Thanks for reading.