So I am a terrible housewife. There, I said it. I hate doing laundry and dishes and just about any other "chore". The thing is, I REALLY, REALLY want to be "that" good wife and mother... you know, the wives who are simply perfect in every way. Their husbands really cherish them, and their kids respect them. They find time to work out, keep polished, clean the whole house, play with and educate the children, healthfully prepare each and every meal from scratch, have "Mommy time", and still manage to get enough "beauty sleep". How do they do it? Not to mention, they genuinely seem very happy. I want that soooooo badly. I just can't seem to stick to any schedule I make for my self. I am utterly disgusted with my self, and I know my husband is un happy. He deserves so much better. He busts his ass at the firm all day, sometimes six days a week, and sometimes when he gets home he has to pick up, and I walk around frustrated at him for being frustrated that he has to clean... um OF COURSE HE'S UPSET! ughhh... I know I just need to kick my self in the ass and get the shit done, period. I just want to know how the hell you get it done happily? Gracefully? Besides the obvious, "oh, I'm doing it for my family, and that makes me happy to do it'... blah blah blah... I mean really... How the heck do you all do it? I need your secrets asap. Please, my family is falling apart.
* UPDATE ON PAGE 3, thanks ladies! :)