Does a SAHM need a housekeeper?

[Anonymous]

No back story a simple question do think a SAHM w 2 kids 8 & 3 should pay someone else to clean.....

[Livv066]

To each their own I guess, but personally I wouldn't. I was a house keeper for a SAHM of one. When I worked there, he was in 1st grade, so he was not home all day. They had a really big house, and I was there every day M-F, from 10-6. If I were her I would have hired a house keeper maybe once a week, her house was really big...Its not my place to tell others what they should or shouldn't be doing.

[xomrsweaver]

Who cares? I dont mind if they do or they dont. A mom's job is to love and care for their children. I would much rather use the time i use to clean my house to play with my kids, and let someone else do the cleaning. 

[Anonymous]

Why shouldn't he pay child support they are his kids too? So if she goes on a vacation he shouldn't have to pay child support?

Quoting kngarber:

Oh is that the kind of post this is? SOs ex has a housekeeper but expects him to pay cs? Tough shit.

Quoting Anonymous:

Now just for Schitz n giggles lets say they are consistantly asking BD#1 for $$

[alyssaravensmom]

I wouldn't.

[kngarber]

Ok sorry. :)

Quoting Anonymous:

No not anything personal for me I think u have the wrong idea

Quoting kngarber:

Oh is that the kind of post this is? SOs ex has a housekeeper but expects him to pay cs? Tough shit.

Quoting Anonymous:

Now just for Schitz n giggles lets say they are consistantly asking BD#1 for $$

[Anonymous]

Why is it weird?

Quoting MeganGallagher:

If she can afford it then go ahead. More time with the kids.. It just seems a little weird but not wrong

[kellieknits]

Does anyone really NEED a housekeeper? If you want one, get one.

[AmaliaD]

I think that anyone who has the money to spare and doestn like to clean should have a housekeeper or just a service that comes once a week. - its a job for someone in a bad economy... we need the rich to spend spend spend - so yes she does need one.  

(but really - no one needs one -  needs are things you die without... like air and water... )  

[outtamymynd]

If that's what they choose.

[kngarber]

Are you talking to me? My response was meaning tough shit deal with the fact your new bf has a child to support. Oh honey I'm a firm believer....you make the baby you support the baby!

Quoting Anonymous:

Why shouldn't he pay child support they are his kids too? So if she goes on a vacation he shouldn't have to pay child support?

Quoting kngarber:

Oh is that the kind of post this is? SOs ex has a housekeeper but expects him to pay cs? Tough shit.

Quoting Anonymous:

Now just for Schitz n giggles lets say they are consistantly asking BD#1 for $$