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I THINK he has another baby.UPDATE2

Anonymous
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Long, long ago, I went through his facebook. Before we had issues and before I confronted him about cheating.

I saw a message from an ex (okay, I had reasons to go through it) and it was asking him to see her daughter.

From what he told me, she was with him, got pregnant, but she cheated so he knows it's not his. I trusted him, and believed him, because before I went through his FB, I had no reason not to, and I didn't see the message at this point.

We now have a son. Shortly after I read the messages and confronted him, I found out we were expecting.I just kinda put it aside, and dealt with my pregnancy and stuff. Now, I am wondering if it's his. He is always broke (broker than necessary) and I suspect it's because he pays CS that I don't know about. I have seen the baby, and our babies don't really look alike. She(the baby) is black/white, and so is my son. They kind of have the same eyebrows, and similar eyes, but it's hard to tell yet. My son looks identical to his father, while the little girl doesn't. She looks like she has her mom's chin. 

I just don't know anymore.

UPDATE:

He just called from work, I came out and asked him:

Can you answer something without freaking out? 

.....

Did you ever get a DNA test for _____'s baby?

He said IT's imbossible that it's his, they weren't together and he would have to sit me down and tell me the story and why did I open up that book.

Update 2:

Basically, he said they broke up before she got pregnant, and she keeps messaging him because she wants him back and "knows she fucked up". He said he's seen her since then at the store and told her to leave him alone because he has a girlfriend. 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 3, 2012 at 4:21 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 3, 2012 at 4:26 PM

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proudmommy690
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2012 at 4:27 PM
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confront him again.
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cLanief
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2012 at 4:27 PM
Omg... Just ask! Sheesh
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rockinmomto2
by Gold Member on May. 3, 2012 at 4:29 PM

Just ask him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 3, 2012 at 4:29 PM

I know it's going to BLOW UP into a huge argument. I don't know how to ask.

Quoting rockinmomto2:

Just ask him.


mcr17
by on May. 3, 2012 at 4:29 PM
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if he screwed her theres a chance hes the kids dad. period.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 3, 2012 at 4:31 PM

That's how I feel. They were together for a long time, too. How do I ask?

Quoting mcr17:

if he screwed her theres a chance hes the kids dad. period.


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