my SO got arrested for domestic violence.**update**
So apparently i have no say about the charges. The cop arrested him because he had to since it was a domestic call, and the state of ohio is pressing charges on him for domestic violence, NOT ME! I have no say in it what so ever. I guess a good thing in some cases? I go to court monday.
I don't know how to feel. I am at lost and heartbroken. My SO has been drinking a lot this week, and yesterday he snapped. He threw all my stuff outside and was acting irrational. I thought I would go in the other room with my toddler to let him cool down. He was being moody and smacked my butt twice in a mean way. I felt like a child being spanked. I let it go and just shut the door. I started webcamming a friend and he heard me laughing. He stormed in and told me to get the fuck out of the house. I told him no and he went over to me and slammed my laptop shut on my lap and then yanked the cord out of the wall and whipped my leg with it. He said if i was feeling this happy that he wanted me out, then i should leave now. (He drinks and kicks me out a few times a month so i was used to it and over the tears) He started to scream at me with my toddler next to me and was getting fusturated. He picked up my laptop and threw it on the kitchen floor. He asked how I liked that, and proceeded to smash it over and over again until it was in a million pieces. He threatened to destroy the rest of my stuff if i didn't get the F out now. He pushed me out into the garage and locked me out. I was hysterical at that point and just called 911. He drove away and by the time he came back, the cop was already there. I gave my report and they arrested him on the spot and said he is going to jail for domestic violence and i should charge him with property damage. I got my stuff and now i am at my parents. So this morning I had to go to court. I saw him on video and dressed in orange. He pleaded not guilty and has a restraining order on him. I really don't feel like going through all this. My stomach is in knots and I am shakey. Why did he do this to us? He had a 2500 dollar jail bond and had friends bail him out.