I think my marriage is over... =( NOT a troll post!! Help! No bashing please!!
So we have been together for 5 years... I never minded where he went, and he never minded where I went as long as we were up front with each other and respected each other, and also kept in touch.. even if it was a short text to say hi.. In the last week, he has gone to the bar 3 times already.. NEVER texts me anymore, has been ignoring a bunch of phone calls on his phone that he says are 800 numbers, and yesterday took the cake.. I lost my trust for my husband and he is blaming me for everything!!!! He called me and said he had to go to his other warehouse to pick up carpet while driving his car.. he went out of the way to tell me he had to drive his car!! Becuase I drive by his job on my way to work.. have to.. that's the only road over the train tracks.. He tells his mom who has to watch our 3 kids he had to wait at the warehouse he was already at to unload carpet... Then my sister in law calls... my husband was tagged on facebook at the bar... Being that he has been sneaky lately, I drove by the bar on the way to work and saw his car there... I waited for him to come out. He says to me he went in to ask his buddy why he tagged him!! RIIIIIIGHTTTT>>>>>> So fast forward to me coming home from work.. I tell him I am not ready to talk becuase I did not want to fight with him.. he freaks out on me.. tells me I am throwing away our marriage. that its my fault he has been going out all the time!! I tried to explain to him I am not ok with lies.. he says after I ask him... that he is a grown man and was asked to go to the bar so he went, but two sentences later, he says I only went to ask dude why he tagged me!!! MAKE UP YOUR FRIGGIN MIND AND STOP LYING TO ME!!!!! I am beginning to think drugs or another woman are involved.. I have no idea what to do.. I do not want to lose him but I feel like if his lies don't stop I will.... Please give me advice WITHOUT bashing!!!! I am a wreck!!!!! =(